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Let say you meet a women. She is attractive,popular,cool and she shows in interest you and you find her attractive and you ask her out and
she say yes. OK let say the women turn out to be a complete b*tch, she is rude to you, she has no respect for you, she cheats on you,
would you stay with her?.
or would continue to date other women who are pretty and cool or would you be more wary?
Sadly, I know that alot of women will continue dating abusers because alot of abusers have ''confidence'' and ''game''
And alot of men will continue dating female abusers because they find them attractive and ''cool''

I would drop the b***h ASAP.

Men who refer to women as "b*tches" are probably not going to be at the top of most women's to-do lists.

I would consider a woman who acts "bitchy" to me as being honest.


I've had the ones who act like they love you to the end of time while completely neglecting you and treating you like a cash cow.

for real though

"To-do" list.

Absolutely! No man should ever call a woman names no matter how deeply she hurts him, how badly she betrayed him, or how cruelly she abused him.

If he utters the word, "b!tch", well - he deserved everything he got. Plus one more for making you mad too. *swift kick to victim*

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To the OP: First, get away from her - FAST! Second, unfortunately there's no way of knowing if anyone (man OR woman) is going to be good or evil except time and exposure. I'd be wary of falling in love too fast or placing full trust in near-strangers... unfortunately we aspies have "SUCKER" branded on our foreheads and cruel abusers/manipulators love to take advantage.

Take it slow - people show their true colours in time.

I would dump her and never talk to her again. Been there done that never again. If she tries to talk to ya just ignore her or say I don't cater to heartless trash!

I'd say I'd need to work on my evaluation skills. If I begin a relationship with someone and they turn out to be an awful human being, either I ignored the red flags or my standards weren't high enough. Either way it's a learning experience, I'd certainly try to use it for the next time.

I have respect for women in general, but I don't have a problem calling particular women a b***h when they are deserving of the title. We would call an abusive male an a**hole, what's the difference? Some women do things that are far more egregious than name calling. Anyone who hasn't disrespected others deserves respect themselves, it's the decent thing to do as human beings. I do think that all goes out the window when someone, anyone, does something evil or nasty to another person.

Yup "someone who calls women b*****s might not be making himself particularly appealing to women with that language"
totally means no woman should ever be insulted ever.. criticizing slurs is kicking victims, totally

You should dump her and say "Note to self: don't date any more women who are like that"

If she says "Yes" and shows up,
then she's already treated me better than any woman I have ever had a crush on.

She's rude to me? That still sounds preferable to the pretentious, vapid, etiquette-driven manner that my peers relate to me.
She cheats on me? Odds are she's cheating on someone else to be with me and not the other way around.
She has no respect for me? Good: that means she'll blend in perfectly with my other "friends".

My choices in this hypothetical are not between her and someone else: They're between her and remaining single.
She'd have to be really despicable before I'd dump her.
And if she's a gold digger trying to get at my stash, then she's digging on an iceberg by mistake.

Last edited by Fatal-Noogie on 14 Oct 2012, 2:52 am, edited 1 time in total.

Is that a trick question? Of course I would dump her.

Once you make the mistake of settling for someone like that, you'll quickly realize that being single is preferable to being in that type of a relationship.

Dating a woman like this is like hitting yourself in the hand with a hammer: it feels so good when you stop.

With that re-clarification in place, you do notice she didn't get called such until AFTER she did a number of terrible things, right? Please don't tell me she still doesn't deserve it.

No, because cruelty as a trait has nothing to do with someone's sex. Glad we're on the same page.