Made out with a total stranger for the first time ever

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No, I'm not here to brag; I just want to share my experience.

So as a post college grad, I didn't start going to night clubs until a year ago. While I was in college, I was either focused on studies or focused on some girl that didn't like me back for a long period of time. Anyways, there's this one club I like going to every week, and they started holding their latin nights on Saturday nights, which means I can stay later than 11 PM unlike when they were holding them on Thursdays. One advantage I have over most of the guys in clubs is I love to dance. I've been learning how to dance salsa and bachata, among other latin dances, for the past year and have all but gotten over the fear of asking random women to dance.

So anyways, since I'm working on trying to develop my conversational skills with women by going out to Panera and other places every day, I figured I would just have fun tonight and not put any pressure on myself. I got to the club late, thinking they would open at 10 PM only to find out they open at 9 PM on Saturdays, and therefore I missed the salsa/bachata class I like to attend. Not much action was going on, so I figured I would watch. I saw these two girls dancing with each other. One in particular I thought looked kind of attractive. I mean, not super attractive, but attractive enough to where I would want to approach her and just dance with her a bit. Afterall, I feel like I have to get one dance in before I leave and check out all the other bars. So anyways, I could tell right off the bat that this girl was dead drunk, even though it was only 10:30 PM. All I did was dance to half a merengue song with her, then I danced a bachata song with her because I absolutely HAVE to dance bachata, but she didn't really know how and it was difficult to show her how because of how bollixed she was, so I danced with her friend, who was an experienced dancer, just to show her how to dance. It wasn't long before I saw this one girl who I was attracted to because she was tall (I'm a sucker for tall girls), who I went up and approached to see if she wanted to dance, but she said she needed a bit more liquor first. She also admitted she was gay. It wasn't long before the girl I was originally dancing with slapped me on the ass, and then I went and pulled her onto the dance floor. We danced to a bunch of songs and gradually got closer and more intimate. It got to a point where I did the unthinkable...I moved my lips to hers and we started making out. It wasn't a continuous thing; it was quite sporadic actually. It got to a point where she was grabbing my ass and feeling inside my shirt. It was like "hot damn". I wanted to see how far I could go, so I took her outside the club, but her friend chased us down, so I had to give her back.

Yeah, I wasn't that attracted to this girl. I mean, she did have a nice body, but to me her attractiveness wasn't shouting "OMG take me home and thrust my vagina!" However, I feel like now I can do this all the time, but I'm not going to. Now that I can risk it, I will only make out with the women I'm really attracted to if everything is set up right. That means I probably need to stay later to see if there's a 6' tall girl with a hot bod who I can get hot and heavy with.

Good job. You have gone where few of us have gone before.. Now use your powers wisely!

This made me laugh: "had to give her back."