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29 Dec 2006, 1:11 pm

What are good conversation topics and how to continue conversation with prospective young women?



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29 Dec 2006, 1:26 pm

Your woman will need to understand AND ACCEPT AS, otherwise things may be hard.


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29 Dec 2006, 1:50 pm

sure.



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29 Dec 2006, 2:15 pm

fashion, music, shopping, movies (avoid D&D, Star Trek, Chess, serial killers, robotics etc.). This is a good list if the girl is a teenager. For a young woman, her job & yours, college, studies, what she's into. Asking questions is a good way to keep up a conversation. Ask about her. If there's a lul in the talk, admit, with a sincere laugh, that you feel a little awkward talking to 'new' women. She'll probably find your honesty & frankness appealing. If not, she's a twit. Move on!



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31 Dec 2006, 7:10 pm

prism97 wrote:
fashion, music, shopping, movies (avoid D&D, Star Trek, Chess, serial killers, robotics etc.). This is a good list if the girl is a teenager. For a young woman, her job & yours, college, studies, what she's into. Asking questions is a good way to keep up a conversation. Ask about her. If there's a lul in the talk, admit, with a sincere laugh, that you feel a little awkward talking to 'new' women. She'll probably find your honesty & frankness appealing. If not, she's a twit. Move on!


probably good ideas thanks



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02 Jan 2007, 6:10 pm

prism97 wrote:
fashion, music, shopping, movies (avoid D&D, Star Trek, Chess, serial killers, robotics etc.). This is a good list if the girl is a teenager. For a young woman, her job & yours, college, studies, what she's into. Asking questions is a good way to keep up a conversation. Ask about her. If there's a lul in the talk, admit, with a sincere laugh, that you feel a little awkward talking to 'new' women. She'll probably find your honesty & frankness appealing. If not, she's a twit. Move on!


Warning: Some women may be a little too promiscous for you. Make sure that they do not flirt with you before talking begins. Even though flirting is encouraged, make sure they do not say anything that is uncomfortable to you.



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02 Jan 2007, 11:31 pm

If she's flirting too fast and too easy, believe me, SHE'S LYING. It's a game, she's leading you on. if she's really interested she'll get interested after taking the time to talk with you and get to know you. Finding a relationship as an AS male, is nearly impossible. I say the best thing is to stick to escorts, less baggage, less hurt, less confusion, and less worries.



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03 Jan 2007, 9:38 am

Nothing worse than talking to a guy that isn't being himself and acting like something he's not... if you want to talk to a woman be genuine, find out what she likes to do and take interest. Pulling off stupid jokes and being overly 'complimenting' is sometimes a real turn-off.


Anonymous... um how do you stop a woman from flirting with you before she talks to you? Just curious... do you tell her upfront... "Don't flirt with me?"

Steel, that works if you're a male with AS... jonathon has only a 'family member with AS' in his profile. If you're self-diagnosed and all, it may not be a good idea to put it out front unless you want the woman to look at you a little strangely and form opinions before getting to know you.



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03 Jan 2007, 1:13 pm

MishLuvsHer2Boys wrote:
Nothing worse than talking to a guy that isn't being himself and acting like something he's not... if you want to talk to a woman be genuine, find out what she likes to do and take interest. Pulling off stupid jokes and being overly 'complimenting' is sometimes a real turn-off.


Anonymous... um how do you stop a woman from flirting with you before she talks to you? Just curious... do you tell her upfront... "Don't flirt with me?"

Steel, that works if you're a male with AS... jonathon has only a 'family member with AS' in his profile. If you're self-diagnosed and all, it may not be a good idea to put it out front unless you want the woman to look at you a little strangely and form opinions before getting to know you.


Mish, that's very easy. Match facial expression to voice tone. If they don't match then she is flirting with you.



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03 Jan 2007, 6:42 pm

Still don't see how you can get a female to 'stop' flirting with you...