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So I went out with this girl again yesterday (the kindergarten teacher) - had lunch with her and a long walk afterwards. I went back home and texted her a bit then I got busy with other stuff.

Today morning, she had been dry with me; I asked her what's wrong and she told me that she was very upset yesterday after the date because I barely texted her in the evening, "I felt like a garbage yesterday" she said. Told her that wasn't my intention at all and I really got busy; after a little quarrel she understood and apologized at the end but...


WTF??

LOL Boo, you aways make me smile. Even when you complain, it's funny (in a nice way). I think because you put the WTF at the end?

I know what you mean. I had a guy this year, who in an hour, sent me 47 texts, and because I was with a friend whom I hadn't seen in 6 years and have know from childhood, I told him, initially I would answer later (he was lucky he even got that as I had to go to the toilet to answer) then he insisted so I told him he was being rude, seeing that I had already told him I was busy with a friend. He went from asking a question, to literally accusing me of being a liar, who didn't want to reply and was finding excuses. Errrrrr I would never use excuses, that's one thing about me, I say it like it is, even if it's to my detriment. It's not even like I was ignoring him, and he wasn't even my boyfriend!! !

Is the kindergarten teacher your favourite? Or is that the nurse?

I don't even know why you would need to text at all, you just spent a chunk of the day with her.

Have fun~ :3

She is scared of rejection, or possibly looking for a relationship where there is a lot of txting, calls, and less alone time.

It is probably something you should discuss with each other what you both want right now.

Oh an assurance, some people need to be told when you are busy, other people are much better an occupying themselves, and if they don't get a reply will get on with something else.

She started to have "feelings" for me.

Our first contact was on 25 Nov on okcupid and she had a BOYFRIEND back then; she broke up with him on Sat 1 Nov - our total nb of dates: 2

and now she's upset because "I am too slow in developing emotions, like a turtle"...

...


WTF???

and oh she accused *me* of being just interested in sex, and I was like "Helloo?? *I* postponed the sex when it was offered to me on a golden plate* http://www.wrongplanet.net/postxf216902-0-15.html - and then she switched the subject to following: She literally told me "There are a lot of guys out there loving me and wanting me and interested in me but you're too slow in emotions"

So I literally told her "Fine, do not try to threaten me, go ahead and pick one of those so-loving guys"

I think you made the decision, the running commentary probably not necessary.

Drama is apt word, if you are fine with then go right ahead. Otherwise break it off, and be clear about it.

Good on ya, mate!

Say NO to head games!

It's not like I am trying to win some game but I just reallly got fed up by this s**t.

So far, nothing came out from women in my recent experience but headache.