why does this always happen to me

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so I know this 25 year old lady who has the type of personality I like in ladies. (when the ladies do most of the talking)
and so been talking to her during my lunch time, but here what sucks. She has boyfriend. Dang it. This always f---ing happens to
me all the time. Every time I finaly meet a lady who has that ''lead'' personality they always are in relationship or they are alot older.

Why can't I ever meet a single 20 something women with a ''lead'' personality. why do married women and older women love me so much.
why can't single women love me..

46 year old married women just loving talking to me but single 23 year old women ''hate'' me, it's starting to annoy me.
s**t. even married 23 year old women loving talking to me as well.

They talk to you because they feel safe that they are in a relationship and dont have to deal with the sillyness of meeting someone to date

Single women love guys who are involved with another lady. Women who are married or are in a relationship have a thing for guys who are single.

This is how it works sometimes. Not always true though.

Why don't you start learning how to be a "lead" and stop assuming what people think about you?

I've been told that if you have a woman with you when you happen to meet another for the first time ever, the woman is more likely to see you in a favorable light., particularly if the woman you are with and the woman you just met are very similar in status and temperament.

I don't know the reason but I suspect that there are at least two important factors. One is that it demonstrates to the woman that someone who is very similar to her considers you safe enough to be alone with. Also, it encourages her with a bit of competition; after all, if you find the woman you are with attractive, then you should also find her attractive as well.

I hear you on that. I am 27 and am married now, I married my opposite basically. I am more of dominant girl and take the lead most of the time, at least when it comes to love. As long as they make that first move, no matter how small I take it from there. But I feel ya on finding all the wrong ones.