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29 Dec 2012, 9:02 pm

now, what Im going to say is not going to get you guys dates but it will build your ability to talk to women. (maybe)
in a safe setting of course (school,gym,club) just go up to a woman and start talking to her but your not hitting on her
or saying ''creepy'' stuff.
you go up and just talk to the woman, like she was your best friend.
go..''hey how you doing, so you like family guy?'' it's a funny show
or ''how is it, my name is ( ) so, Im just waiting for the new years.

what so cool about it. Is how the women react to it. sometimes they are so shock. that some guy
can just come up to them and just talk to them like nothing.
now, these type of approach will not get you dates (unless your very lucky)
but it can get you more comferable around women. So once you get good at just
approaching women as the ''eccentric best friend'' style. then you can change it up.
and do a different approach towards women.

so all you shy guys here, just go up to a woman and just talk to her, your not asking her out.
just image your talking to a guy and just talk about whatever comes on your mind (keep it clean)
and don't worry if she likes you or not. that not the goal. your goal is just to talk to the lady, not getting a date.
but if the woman does like you. then go for it.

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29 Dec 2012, 9:23 pm

np/ps:dr

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29 Dec 2012, 9:27 pm

bill, you should check out the channel ''simplepickup'' on youtube im sure you'd like them.

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29 Dec 2012, 9:27 pm

Fnord wrote:

np/ps:dr

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29 Dec 2012, 9:30 pm

is this why "young women dont like you"?

what does this mean?

"np/ps:dr"

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29 Dec 2012, 9:53 pm

Fnord wrote:

np/ps:dr

No Problem - Penis Survived, Doctor. :thumright:

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29 Dec 2012, 9:55 pm

BlueMax wrote:

Fnord wrote:

np/ps:dr

No Problem - Penis Survived, Doctor. :thumright:

Good on yer, mate!

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29 Dec 2012, 10:11 pm

I already inadvertently do this. Women don't wanna talk to you about what brand of motor oil is your favorite. Besides, I talk with my best friends about alien moon bases and how it'd be really cool if we introduced camels to America and called them desert moose.

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29 Dec 2012, 11:03 pm

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america already has camels....have you ever been to arizona?

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29 Dec 2012, 11:21 pm

wtfid2 wrote:

1000Knives wrote:

america already has camels....have you ever been to arizona?

I remember the story of Hi Jolly.

Quote:

The Ballad of Hi Jolly

CHORUS:

Hi Jolly, hey Jolly
Twenty miles today by golly
Twenty more before the morning light
High Jolly Yeah, I gotta be on my way
I told my gal I'd be home Sunday night.

VERSES:

Hi Jolly was a camel driver long time ago
Followed Mr. Blaine a way out west
Didn't mind the burnin' sand in that God-forsaken land
But he didn't mind the pretty gals the best

They got pretty gals in Albuquerque, least that's what I've heard
Pretty gals in Tucumcari, too
Now, Honey, I ain't blind, but I don't pay 'em any mind
I'm savin' all my lovin' just for you

Old timers out in Arizona tell you that it's true
You can see Hi Jolly's ghost a-travelin' still
When that desert moon is bright he comes ridin' through the night
Leadin' four-and-twenty camels 'cross the hill

Words and music by Randy Sparks, (c) 1963 Cherrybell Music Publishing Company.

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29 Dec 2012, 11:21 pm

wtfid2 wrote:

1000Knives wrote:

america already has camels....have you ever been to arizona?

I've not.

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30 Dec 2012, 1:45 pm

wtfid2 wrote:

1000Knives wrote:

america already has camels....have you ever been to arizona?

There were camels in Arizona thousands of years ago but they went extinct. I heard about the fossil skeleton of one being found in Arizona. But it was thousands of years old and there are no living ones anymore.

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30 Dec 2012, 2:11 pm

Janissy wrote:

wtfid2 wrote:

1000Knives wrote:

america already has camels....have you ever been to arizona?

Thus me and my friend's brilliant plan to reintroduce feral camels to America. We even had an idea of bringing black camels up North, too.

Me and my friend also talk about how he doesn't need exterminators as he just purposely introduces lots of spiders to his house, and once hybridized the indoor and outdoor wolf spiders to make super wolf spiders. But not too many girls like having fun conversations like this.

Maybe I need different male friends?

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30 Dec 2012, 6:38 pm

Janissy wrote:

wtfid2 wrote:

1000Knives wrote:

america already has camels....have you ever been to arizona?

ihave ridden on camels there...

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01 Jan 2013, 5:20 am

I think if you tried this in the UK you would be seen as a weirdo....and in no uncertain terms told to piss off..so think i will leave this one out for now!

It can be hard with AS to talk to women as we all have this problem with how to interact and what to talk about...instead of ranting on about our latest interest but i suppose it might be worth the risk for some :lol:

good luck you guys with this one!....and let us know the outcome if anyone has the balls to try it!

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03 Jan 2013, 9:24 am

If one talks to a woman, is it necessarily implied that he wishes to shag her at some point in the foreseeable future?

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