a couple female friends

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so i've been hanging with a couple young ladies at a community center.
it pretty cool. it nice hanging around a couple ladies, it makes me happy .
one is single, but I have no interest in dating her. Even though we do get along pretty well.
and she really nice young lady. but she not girlfriend quailfied for me.
but noneless, I will be hanging out with them again in another couple weeks. so wish me luck.

in last month I've met 3 other cool females, that really get along with me. So my luck with ladies
has improved, yeah. but sadly none of them are girlfriend quailfied.
but having friends is cool, but the big goal is to get a girlfriend.

are any of them finding you attractive?

in last couple of months. I've have done alot of improving of approach and talking ''skills'' around ladies.
I am not an alpha male nor will I ever be. But I have done alot to make myself more approachable towards ladies.
so far, I haven't met the right one yet. Look I want a girlfriend, not some girl Im going to go out with for like 2 weeks
and she put me in the friendzone lol.

and I've been talking to more range of women then just 19 year olds at the gym.
so Im very happy that I am improving with the ladies. ( few months most women would just stare at me)
but now, they talking to me more instead of just staring.

i am glad you are making friends and expanding the group of women you are willing to talk to. this will definitely help you in your dating life as well as in your friendships. sounds like you are getting much more comfortable just talking and socialising.

why are they not qualified to be your girlfriends?

Its good that you are clear on what you want(ie not wanting to be friendzoned ) but you cant figure out wether some girl will indeed "friendzone" you(aka not want to date you) if you dont take a risk to ask them out imo.

Not saying that you should start asking girls out right now since you just started being comfortable around women/making women comfortable around you but in the longterm you are going to have to take some chances to figure out wether some girl will indeed reject your proposal of dating.