bluerose wrote:
So, is acknowledging human nature sexist?
Am I expected to be like, oh, okay, there is a clear reason I can see in the mirror why I've been treated like *** by all men but noooooo that cannot beeeee men don't judge by looks no wayyyy ! !!

:D:D:D Magazines like Maxim are all about a woman's great personality, right? That's what they all rank 'em by.
Nice of ppl to try and erase my entire existence off the Earth tho, sry my problems are so offensive but a million creepy guys whining about HOT women(are they ever after plain girls?) not noticing them are not offensive at all

99% of all men do not fap to Barbie, nor do they fap to fashion models. Men want someone with a healthy level of body fat (anywhere between 18 and 32%).
I'm a man and I've never judged you, pushed you around or walked all over you. Many of the guys here invest a lot of time and efforts in their own appearance (take a look at the health/exercise forum here at this board), thus, they expect a girl to look decent. A lot of women (and some men) have given you plenty of advice. It's up to you if you want to use this advice, but unless you do anything to improve your situation, the only common denominator is you.
If you do what you've always done, you get what you've always gotten.
You need to be sexually attracted to someone to have a successful relationship with them; on a date, I'm not looking for a girl who can be "one of the guys", but someone I'm both sexually attracted to AND get along with.
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