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11 Feb 2013, 2:02 pm

So, is acknowledging human nature sexist?

Am I expected to be like, oh, okay, there is a clear reason I can see in the mirror why I've been treated like *** by all men but noooooo that cannot beeeee men don't judge by looks no wayyyy ! !! :D:D:D:D Magazines like Maxim are all about a woman's great personality, right? That's what they all rank 'em by.

Nice of ppl to try and erase my entire existence off the Earth tho, sry my problems are so offensive but a million creepy guys whining about HOT women(are they ever after plain girls?) not noticing them are not offensive at all :D



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11 Feb 2013, 2:07 pm

bluerose wrote:
So, is acknowledging human nature sexist?

Am I expected to be like, oh, okay, there is a clear reason I can see in the mirror why I've been treated like *** by all men but noooooo that cannot beeeee men don't judge by looks no wayyyy ! !! :D:D:D:D Magazines like Maxim are all about a woman's great personality, right? That's what they all rank 'em by.

Nice of ppl to try and erase my entire existence off the Earth tho, sry my problems are so offensive but a million creepy guys whining about HOT women(are they ever after plain girls?) not noticing them are not offensive at all :D


Some of WP are a tad sexist if that's what you're getting at but for the most part what I see here is a case of guys wanting to get ANY girl!
I could be totally wrong though and it could be a case of they are constantly being rejected because the girls they go for have them punching (uppercutting) above their weight.
I wouldn't call girls not portrayed by men's mags as plain :) I find it more sexy tbh.



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11 Feb 2013, 2:11 pm

your specific problems aren't sexist, but your generalisations against men are. if you paint all men with the same brush, that is sexist and not allowed on the site. you can talk about how the men in your life have treated you, but you cannot make blanket statements about all men as a whole.

if someone creates a thread and makes sexist generalisations about women, it is also not allowed on the site. however, they are also allowed to talk about their personal experiences with women.

sexism is very clearly disallowed in the rules, which can be found here:
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt12459.html

there is a very good clarification in this post at the top of the Love & Dating forum:
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postp3034530.html#3034530


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11 Feb 2013, 2:17 pm

bluerose wrote:
So, is acknowledging human nature sexist?

Am I expected to be like, oh, okay, there is a clear reason I can see in the mirror why I've been treated like *** by all men but noooooo that cannot beeeee men don't judge by looks no wayyyy ! !! :D:D:D:D Magazines like Maxim are all about a woman's great personality, right? That's what they all rank 'em by.

Nice of ppl to try and erase my entire existence off the Earth tho, sry my problems are so offensive but a million creepy guys whining about HOT women(are they ever after plain girls?) not noticing them are not offensive at all :D


Well lets be honest here, what *I* call "Hot" may not be any one elses idea of Hot.. My "Hot" Could be your "Plain"..



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11 Feb 2013, 3:32 pm

bluerose wrote:
So, is acknowledging human nature sexist?

Am I expected to be like, oh, okay, there is a clear reason I can see in the mirror why I've been treated like *** by all men but noooooo that cannot beeeee men don't judge by looks no wayyyy ! !! :D:D:D:D Magazines like Maxim are all about a woman's great personality, right? That's what they all rank 'em by.

Nice of ppl to try and erase my entire existence off the Earth tho, sry my problems are so offensive but a million creepy guys whining about HOT women(are they ever after plain girls?) not noticing them are not offensive at all :D


99% of all men do not fap to Barbie, nor do they fap to fashion models. Men want someone with a healthy level of body fat (anywhere between 18 and 32%).

I'm a man and I've never judged you, pushed you around or walked all over you. Many of the guys here invest a lot of time and efforts in their own appearance (take a look at the health/exercise forum here at this board), thus, they expect a girl to look decent. A lot of women (and some men) have given you plenty of advice. It's up to you if you want to use this advice, but unless you do anything to improve your situation, the only common denominator is you. If you do what you've always done, you get what you've always gotten.

You need to be sexually attracted to someone to have a successful relationship with them; on a date, I'm not looking for a girl who can be "one of the guys", but someone I'm both sexually attracted to AND get along with.



Last edited by Kurgan on 11 Feb 2013, 3:36 pm, edited 1 time in total.

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11 Feb 2013, 3:34 pm

Tbh, WP is not more sexist than other Love forums. Go take a look around.



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11 Feb 2013, 3:50 pm

Please let me know once you stop referring to your warped views on males as human nature and I may consider taking the time to argue with you



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11 Feb 2013, 4:15 pm

Let her speak!

A sexist girl's thread for a change!

Go on, bluerose, I am all ears, shoot me.



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11 Feb 2013, 4:49 pm

Kurgan wrote:
99% of all men do not fap to Barbie, nor do they fap to fashion models. Men want someone with a healthy level of body fat (anywhere between 18 and 32%).

many men may want someone with that particular level of body fat, but not all of them. some prefer larger or thinner women, and others are not particular. you are generalising here, and it is not accurate to speak of men as a whole like that. you sort of allowed some men might like super-thin women (though it might be more than 1%, who knows?), but you don't allow for the men that might also like the opposite.


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11 Feb 2013, 5:39 pm

hyperlexian wrote:
Kurgan wrote:
99% of all men do not fap to Barbie, nor do they fap to fashion models. Men want someone with a healthy level of body fat (anywhere between 18 and 32%).

many men may want someone with that particular level of body fat, but not all of them. some prefer larger or thinner women, and others are not particular. you are generalising here, and it is not accurate to speak of men as a whole like that. you sort of allowed some men might like super-thin women (though it might be more than 1%, who knows?), but you don't allow for the men that might also like the opposite.


Some like anorectic women, others like morbidly obese women--but the majority prefer the most healthy fat levels. Barbie does not look like that because men are supposed to think she´s hot.