10 Feb 2013, 10:46 am
ripped wrote:
Getting a phone number is not getting laid.
Getting an "easy" phone number is not getting laid.
What century are you from?
Getting an "easy" phone number is not getting laid.
What century are you from?
Not a different century; just how my city works. I learned from experience. I gave a coworker my number after knowing him all of 3 days when we were flirting, stupidly hopped into bed with him after he reassured me he doesn't sleep around/ask for numbers often. I now know he says that to every female in the workplace
Ever since then, I don't give my number to people I don't know.
He's also pulled the same thing with two my friends who were smart enough NOT to sleep with him. Once both were firm in the "not gonna sleep with you" part, he wanted nothing to do with them. Most men around here tend to just want a woman's number for 1 thing. Not all of them are like that, and I imagine not all men who immediately want your number after knowing you for 2 minutes are like that, but because the majority here are like that, it makes little to no sense to hand your number to just anyone.
I have been back to the corner store twice after that guy asked for my number. Each time, he kept eyeballing me in a creepy way. Since then, nope. Not going back.
Sorry, asking for someone's number immediately is, and always will be, creepy to me. If anyone of those people had waited a while longer, I might have still been creeped out, but would have felt secure in the knowledge that they didn't only want one thing. If you don't know anything about me other than how I look, I assume you only want my number for sex. Maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow, but you're going to want it sometime down the road. Conceited of me? Maybe. But tell me I am not right. Tell me you would still ask my number if you weren't going to give me a second thought, if you thought I was ugly, if you thought I looked frumpy, if you thought I had bad fashion sense, ect.
10 Feb 2013, 12:20 pm
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10 Feb 2013, 12:52 pm
Cafeaulait wrote:
billiscool wrote:
Yuugiri wrote:
billiscool wrote:
I know, I know. need to stop doing that towards women. and it's not creepy, it more annoying towards women.
women don't find me creepy. some find me, very annoying or an idiot. but never creepy.
beside that ''hot woman'' and some of them 19-20 year old female gym employee. Most women think Im cool.
in a friendship way of course.
women don't find me creepy. some find me, very annoying or an idiot. but never creepy.
beside that ''hot woman'' and some of them 19-20 year old female gym employee. Most women think Im cool.
in a friendship way of course.
How would you know if they're creeped out by it or not? Do you talk to them about it after it happens? Anger stems from lots of different emotions, fear being one of them.
nope she wasn't creep out. she looked pissed. she look mad. not scared. there is a difference between a guy being an annoying douchebag and being creepy. and that woman, thought I was some jerk.
if she was creep out by me, wouldn't she walk faster instead of walking in the same pace with a mad look.
Believe me, she was CREEPED out. Besides that, it is annoying as f**k.
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kTFZyl7hfBw[/youtube]
EXACTLY!!
10 Feb 2013, 12:54 pm
BlueMax wrote:
Very few people enjoy being eyed like a piece of meat.
Your, "daaayyyumm guuurrlll" approach will only work in two very rare instances:
a) she's desperate for validation from others and needs every reason possible to think of themselves as attractive, AND
b) you're so smokin' hot, yourself, that women are fighting each other to get at you (and would therefore be taken as a compliment instead of an insult.)
Your, "daaayyyumm guuurrlll" approach will only work in two very rare instances:
a) she's desperate for validation from others and needs every reason possible to think of themselves as attractive, AND
b) you're so smokin' hot, yourself, that women are fighting each other to get at you (and would therefore be taken as a compliment instead of an insult.)
Exactly, and since 99 percent of men are not as attractive as
This
Or this
[img][800:1222]http://www.greysgabble.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/jesse-williams-espy-awards-05.jpg[/img]
Just DON'T DO IT. EVER.
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