What do I need to do to get a woman interested in me?

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I've given up chess, D&D, computers, physics, philosophy, religion and other matters to be more NT. I know that most NT do not care about dinosaurs, and I feel I should not care about dinosaurs either.

I've not quite figured what I should do now going forward.

Are you sure it's worth giving up your interests for something that might or might not happen?

You've given up yourself in essence mate. You don't need to do that. Trust me, I'm sure that there are NTs out there who like what you like.

Uh, if you give up everything that makes you you, what do you have to offer anyone?


Look, NTs aren't all conformist boring pigs. Many of them like stuff like chess, D&D, dinosaurs, etc. Find someone who is into what you're into (trust me, they're out there, I myself played chess, magic the gathering, D&D and all of that throughout high school. There are girls who get way into it!)

Get rich and/or famous. Which means focus on your obession that could get you
rich or famous and keep working at it. If you have ADHD killing your productivity get treatment for it.

Wealth. Power. Fame. All of these would be good to have in order to attract women. The kind of women that like to also have wealth, power, and fame. They don't want you, they want what you have. Not exactly the best types to go for, unless you desire a mutually superficial relationship. You could get a good arm ornament in this way.

If that doesn't sound like what you want (and I hope it wouldn't be, but that's your call, not mine), then you should be yourself. Sure, smooth out the edges, so to speak, but don't change yourself or present yourself as something you aren't to try and attract people. They'll be more upset that you were fake than they would be if you were honest, albeit nonconventional or different or whatever. Besides, its quite possible that one would actually like your interests or traits, or both. That kind of person would be a much better find than someone who likes a fabricated individual that you take the guise of for the sake of "fitting in."

I would love to be rich famous and powerful for those reasons. Not sure how to achieve it. I can't dance or sing.

Why would you want to give up on Dinosaurs, in order to find a mate? They make you who you are. I'm looking for a mate myself, and I'm not giving up on my Routemasters, because they make me who I am. I'll just have to find a man from London.

Did I say anything wrong, here?

Kid. I have news for you. as the others said about NTs. They are not all that bad. I dated an NT....and it worked. for about 7 months. mind you that we had practically next to nothing in common. well, we both liked good movies and whatnot, and bowling. I will tell you that watching Top Gun 3 times in a row is a good thing to do.

But I will say this, having to give up what you treasure so dearly as so you can meet people? ehehehe.......that will serve no end to anything, you need to be yourself, and at the same time make it so people realize that. we are unique. I am a borderline crossover NT/AS person. I had As and now it's more or less disappering. College does that to a person it makes you...........crazy.

Thank you C.R.

Aye. better to be hated for the fact that you're a republican in a democratic household, then to go around not liking what you are. okay, that sounded stupid.

But truth of the matter, is that you are sliding back along a path that takes you away from what you are. You don't want that. You want to be what you are, it makes the woman thath you end up dating like you because you are what you are, not because you aren't.