But why?

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I am fascinated why my boyfriend, the love of my life for 12 years, since I was 16 years old, didn't give up on me when everyone else has. And why I feel so deeply connected to him too. When we have a conversation I feel a vibe I have never feel with anyone ever, . I still do things like miss cues and stuff but it doesn't matter with him.

I accept that I have always being immensely difficult to connect with and at first we would even argue that he said I was holding back when i felt I was giving him everything I had to give.

I'm forever asking why he persevered with me, his answers are these:

He loves me, he liked the challenge, my big boobs (he is a man), he was fascinated by me, I was so diffident to the other girls

I guess what I'm asking is dose anyone else have a special person where all the social awkwardness just evaporates, and how does that even just happen. Not that I'm complaining it's great

Uh-oh, another boob thread.

its not meant to be a boob thread

Well... this what it is for me now.
(I am a man)

and that's what men are all about i guess?? To answer the question, i believe when a connection is there it is there. And the reasoning behind it cannot be put on paper, an awful lot of communication is non-verbal. However awkwardly, you probably have been saying some great things to him without even realising

Oh Dear i started something, well not all of them but mine, hmm

Sometimes I'd like to bottle this magic and keep it in my pocket for use in emergencies

boobs? where!?

Found one!





OP: You're very lucky. I had someone like that once but she chose someone else. /sigh. I hope you never lose yours.

^
Yes, it would be very sad to lose your cute bird with the blue feet

I found one too.