Why is it impossible for an ugly man to be desired?

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You should consider this: Go to Japan. See how many clean shaven men there are. Then realize none of the men are telling the hot Japanese ladies how pretty they are when they walk by, or holding the door open and saying ladies first. I don't base my love interests completely off looks. But also there is good reason why men and women desire good healthy looking spouses. For men: Women who are tall and have large breasts can bear more children and breast feed more easily. Also women who are tough can defend themselves and the children when the father is away. Same for women: Men who are strong, smart, and treat women like queens are usually the best fathers you can find.
Just cause your ugly doesn't mean you can't be more chivalrous, ya know.

And yet, my wife STILL tossed me aside like a used tissue... I officially have NO idea what the ladies want.




...so I'll just be my goofy ol' self and hope someone eventually wants that.

Then stop blaming yourself. If it was her, and you know you were being a good man to her and being loyal and all that, you still got it!
If she tossed you aside like a used tissue, then you know treating ladies like a gentleman would will still work. You don't have to go all butler on a girl, but treating a girl special should be required in any marriage, if not all women. It sounds like you are blaming yourself for what happened, and even if it was a little you, you still have time. Some of the marriages that happen latest in life are the most tightly bound marriages out there.

YESS!!^^^^ My marriage failed but I'm not blaming myself and I'm not going to change how I am and how I treat my partner. I will be the same way I've always been and I WILL find someone who deserves it cause he sure didn't. I'm not worried about my age one bit!

Just because she tossed aside what she had didn't mean what she had wasn't wonderful. She just didn't appreciate it.

The all famous story of a beautiful women getting married to a not so attractive man. It happens because that is what men think of their spouse, and then of themselves. And also because it actually happens in the literal sense. Not just for white guys either, the short nerdy Japanese kid that I went to college was all the rage among the ladies, and all I could think of was "good for him, bout time a nerdy guy was all the rage" he was just that cool.

Based on what you've said, your wife has issues. Please don't use her as the yardstick for judging all women.

Thanks - I really, REALLY try not to. I need more positive female influences in my life... glad I have a few fantastic friends to counteract the several complete nutbags!

Wow,

I just looked up Marfan Syndrome, and it fits me to a t!

I found several pictures of unusually flexible hands like mine, and the chest depression as well. I also have that Jacobson's organ looking thing in the roof of my mouth.

Sorry to say, bud, but you are NOT living in the real world if you can say this.

But I do love Bleach, so whatever.

EDIT: Just now noticed shrox's post. I have all the same features as well.