my pickup lines,and why no women ''hates'' me

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I bet they think it's cute (as others have said). You are clearly very autistic and pose no real threat. You might be disabled and simple enough that they see you as autistic, rather than as "creepy" like they see many aspie guys. They might even want to be your friend, and it might not even be a pity relationship. It's a thing some girls do to make themselves feel better about themselves. I know girls who befriend mentally disabled homeless people for similar reasons and spend hours listening to their incoherent ramblings. Being nice to weak things is something in which some women take pleasure. I do not know if it is a cultural thing, or an instinctual thing. I am not aware of the actual reason. But maybe an actual woman can clarify.

Well, for one thing, no offense, but those aren't good pickup lines. James Bond at his most suave might have trouble getting dates if he tried using some of those, so I highly doubt they'll be remotely successful for most aspies.

And, most importantly, why do you feel the need to use pickup lines in the first place? As several other posters have noted, a lot of aspies don't really pull them off so well, and they're a really forced, inorganic way of trying to start a relationship. Just try and develop friendships between yourself and other people, and if you feel like there might be something between you and a girl, just casually ask her out to get coffee together or something like that (without saying "buy me coffee"). Also, it says you're 30 under your avatar, so aren't you sort of limiting your options, and, to be blunt, making your odds of success significantly lower by not considering dating women closer to your own age?

Here is what you dont seem to get bill:

Couple of weeks ago I was with some "friends", I joined the table of some lady I like to speak with(we get along fine, that is all) and two random people joined us.
This was nothing new so I went along with it.
I asked the first person what she did and she told me about her life for a few minutes.
I asked the first man what he did and he told me he was a dirty old man(his words not mine) and he was retired
I was a bit surprised by the whole dirty old man but I figured he had an odd sense of humour.

Within 20 minutes someone put me aside and started laughing in a very low tone. I asked said person what was wrong.
Apparently true to his words dirty old man had decided to hit on the oldest female member and she couldnt help to just see it as a joke.

I told her about the dirty old man incident, she told me that she had been pointed out his name was similar to sex, in case she couldnt remember it and she had just made a point to leave asap(not creepy at all right?)

This man hasnt interacted with the oldest female member in the past weeks and he wont interact with her any time soon.
Why? He made an awful first impression with extremely lame pickup lines.

This thread reminded me of that incident because Im quite positive that this females do talk about your pickup lines behind your back, the thing is, when you hit on someone that gets paid by treating you nicely chances of her reacting badly to your face are close to none man

Bill, don't use pick up lines. That's just lame...

I wonder why nobody has ever thought of saying "Hey, I like you a lot. Would you like to go on a date with me?". I think most people (not just girls) would rather someone was upfront about it instead of, y'know, bullshitting them.

actual my pickup lines do have truth behind them. I did win the 10k age group (30-34), so that makes me a ''winner''
because I won, the 10k 30-34 male age group. and I did ask her, ''you like winners''
and she said ''yes''. so, that is all correct.

none of it' B.S. don't most women like winners. I won some other age group too in running in other races.
and some 2nd and 3rd place age group too.

and the woman I hit on, also likes running too. and staying in shape like me, so my pickup lines, aren't too out of line.