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14 Jun 2013, 10:12 pm

Hey everyone it's Andrew and I need to share something. I went to high school with this girl only for freshman year but we were both were shy at the time and did not talk to each other and she moved away after fresman year but I found her on Facebook a few years back through some mutual friends and we starting getting a close friendship from that and she would call me on the phone at times but she got a divorced like a year a year ago sadley and I starting having feeling for her and she stoped talking to me so I gave her some space because I know she has been going through a hard time but this past Monday she emiled me and wainted to talk again and then she called me on the phone and said she had a crush on me in Freshman year and she said she wished she never left Indiana where I'm at. I told her I had feelings for her to which I do but that night she said she was going to message me and never did so I sent her a few emails the next day asking her like how her day was and she would not responed she just look and them and never responded so I talk to my therapist today about this and she said I should send her an email telling her I'm confuesed and I did and she did not responed to that either so I was wondering what I should do? What happen if she emails me again out of the Blue? I was moving on before this happened I hope all is having a great night. Thank you.

Andrew



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14 Jun 2013, 10:31 pm

give up and move on.


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14 Jun 2013, 10:37 pm

My analysis: She was single and looking for a man during that time she made notes to you. Then she found one almost immediately after the notes. Now she's disinterested in any other men at the moment (how ever long that may be). She's gone.

The only thing you could possibly done different that might have made a difference, was to act a bit more coy, women like a challenge more than men do. You may have been too easy.
You are now, definitely, too late.

My condolences, been there, done that, it sux hard.


ps. your therapist is a dork.


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14 Jun 2013, 10:40 pm

unless of course she has a very, very good reason for not responding.


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