Advise On Meeting Females

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I seek knowledge of the kind used for finding females. I try bookstore (no-no hands off); other places coffee shop (no-no with bf)

Me lonely, what can I do? Not wanna meet online, is single girl real thing?

I here to listen.

What kind of girlfriend are you looking for?

Try being a bit more mature. It's ok to act like an 8 year old if you are actually 8, not so much if you're 25.

As for venues; you could try night-classes, you could try bars or clubs, you could try a dating service, there are many options.

Well, the first thing you need to do is QUIT USING PIDGEON ENGLISH. People who say, "Me want ...." don't sound too bright.

Me want female, not good english... lol

I think it's funny, grrr I need girl, you know?

Inflatable ones suck you want a Realdoll, only way is to be patient and keep going to the coffee shop, and allot of females will say they have a boyfriend when they don't if you are anything like I picture you there...

Keep going to the coffee shop & stop posting like you not speak good English, sderenzi.

I'm a female but it's the way your putting your posts eg. 'me want', 'me need female' and talking about girls as though though we dont read these posts, and the one where you are talking TO us, you dont give any info about yourself anyway.
Why don't you talk about yourself abit more (but not anymore about how lonely you are I reckon we know that already) and if anyone thinks something sounds interesting they are more likely to contact you. As a girl I look for what boys are interested in and their hobbies etc because if I went for someone who all I knew about him was that he was very lonely and needed a woman, I'd be worried about whether we'd have anything in common at all.
That is supposed to be practical advice just cos I have noticed quite a few of your posts...

Whoever said in another thread that a relationship will grow out of friendship is right. I think if you maybe look at girls as potential friends rather than skipping straight to potential girlfriends it might help. I know that you still have to make friends in the first place, do you work or go out anywhere (apart from the bookstore and coffee shop on a mission to get a girlfriend)? Maybe join an interest group. that way at least you could have something in common to actually start talking about.

You're really having problems aren't you?

SERIOUSLY SERIOUSLY SERIOUSLY, stop being so clinical about it. We are girls, women, chics even...NOT females! We like having sex, making love, NOT mating fer crap's sake! That's KILLING your chances.

Oh, and the comment about things falling into your lap when you stop looking...it's true Go out there to find someone to talk to, possibly friends, or just social interaction, and someone may just find you deadly sexy

Treat it more as a game than as a pantomime Because that's what it is...that's why it's called the GAME of love. And there's no cheat code for this one. Get out there and give it a shot, try different things, different places...don't get desperate, we can sense that