Losing virginity to somebody (Lads talk)

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To all guys, who did you lose your virginity to and what happened?

An ex-girlfriend.. note the 'ex' part to figure out what happened. Looking back.. I must've been delusional to think I loved her.

I was raped by a mael relative when I was 12. First consentuall time might be considred even more inapropriate to say much beyond it happened at 14 and was with a girll abuot 4 years older than me. We held a relationship for a long tiem afterwards, thuogh never married.

In a one-night stand to a girl I can't remember the name of at the age of 20, but if you're still in your teens, I don't recommend that. If you're 20+ and you still are a virgin, you can follow my example; virginity is a red flag to many girls and thus, you need to treat it like a rash or an illness if you ever want to have a normal sex life.

was with my ex girlfriend and she ask me to have sex with her. and what happen, we had sex.

Still a virgin. I don't consider it a rash, though.

Losing your virginity is not special nor magical. it doesn't matter who it goes to, sex isnt a big deal, NT's and their ape brains that need to procreate through instinct think it is though, so they get advertisers to exploit this fact.
I dont get the what happened part? really, i get the feeling your doing what i did and billing up to be magical and heading for abject dissapointment.
You put yourself inside her and it feels warm and kinda looser than your hand and you have like alot of freedom to move round, its basically like being inside a velvet glove.... you dont find any meaning you thrash around spunk and thats it...
its fun its worth doing again, but its not the be all and end all and its in no way a big deal.

i really dont know if you wanted that kinda detail but i figured id give it anyway.

Haven't been 'there' yet, and will never be there, sadly.

I'm still a virgin.

31 and besides an incident as a previous post I consider myself still a virgin and probably always will be.

For us gay guys, the demarcation between virgin or not is rather fuzzy. I've never gone all the way, but I have fooled around with a couple of guys. The first time was quite disappointing, actually. I regret both cases, although for slightly different reasons. I allowed myself to get carried away, or to be pressured (depending on which guy we're talking about). In neither case was it an actual relationship, although at the times I thought a relationship was in the cards.

Virgin for straight and gay male is actually pretty straightforward, penetration.

For women, it's a little more complex, but I would say rubbing together.

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19, ex-gf

virginity is a transient concept, dont worry so much.. if your having sexual pleasure does it really matter?
the first time is no more important than the second