I feel like shes changed

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I met a girl on this website a year ago and we both have Aspergers. We got along very well and we've become the closest of friends, even a little more. Recently shes become more serious and robotic and less emotional because he feels emotions and me talking with her over Skype will ruin her grades. I'm fine with her focusing on school but its like she's a completely different girl... Advice?

Keep friendly with her, don't smother her, and let her get back to you when she's ready.
If you try to force things you'll repel her.
If she's giving you an easy let down she'll be more direct later if you don't get the message.
I think you should take it as what she said until she tells you otherwise.
Us Aspies prefer things direct and honest, but also overthink, so if you're both Aspies, chances are she'd be telling you the truth, and you just need to wait until she has enough time and resources to put into the relationship.
At best she'll come around when she's ready, at worst you'll still have a friend.