I Have Aspergers, But I'm Not Attracted Guys With Aspergers?
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Oh sh*t - by Tyrions standards I am an NT. *runs away*
Actually on topic: I like aspie guys and have a bit of a thing for the aspie guys that manage to make it through their life with some maturity and common sense. If they actually make something of themselves then I probably have more respect for them too (compared to their NT coupterparts), because I know first hand how damn difficult it can be.
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Actually on topic: I like aspie guys and have a bit of a thing for the aspie guys that manage to make it through their life with some maturity and common sense. If they actually make something of themselves then I probably have more respect for them too (compared to their NT coupterparts), because I know first hand how damn difficult it can be.
Yeah, I think along those lines, too and respect aspies who have a reasonable go at life to the best of their abilities.
Also, even though I generally have little patience for people's "issues", at least aspie issues are something I can identify with, so I have a lot more patience for those. But I haven't met enough aspies in real life to generalise from that, so I have to mostly go by what I read on WP.
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She is obsessed with men out of her league, like the married one she's stalking.
Op should read my Ugly Girl Entitlement Disorder thread.
Dude, I'm not stalking anyone and the guy I like isn't married, how do you even know who he is anyway? I haven't seen him or contacted him in 5 years!
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because:
1) I love sex. They love sex.
2) They tend to be a bit more confident
3) They are better at feeling my needs and comforting me
Now that we are on the topic of pointless digs, similarly, I am attracted to NT women.
1) They don't have weird sensory issues or dumb inhibitions that interfere with sex.
2) They are more likely to be confident, can pay their own way, and take better care of themselves.
3) They are less likely to be emotionally unstable. I can talk to them like an adult instead of like a hysterical child.
Of course, the last one is not necessarily a problem. I feel the same way but don't show it, so sometimes it's nice to have someone around who gets me.
Still, I do like talking to adults some of the time.
tit for tat.
and I agree with the above.
For instance, I have never seen in the real life that high % of women in a single NT community who love steroid-ed buffs that much so yea, Aspie women are certainly less mature.
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She is obsessed with men out of her league, like the married one she's stalking.
Op should read my Ugly Girl Entitlement Disorder thread.
The OP is certainly aware that this board is full of involuntary celibate guys who are already struggling in being attractive to NT women, so this thread sounds like "We asssspie women don't like you either, die loserssss" **spitting acid on wounds**
The thing is that the OP didn't like any AS guy before simply because she didn't meet someone with AS she finds attractive yet, it shouldn't be a correlation with AS, I highly doubt she met hundreds of Aspie guys - however labeling them all as "Guys with Asperger" suggests that it's their AS that makes them unattractive for her.
So this is what the thread is all about, it's pouring acid on the wounds of guys here.
because:
1) I love sex. They love sex.
2) They tend to be a bit more confident
3) They are better at feeling my needs and comforting me
Now that we are on the topic of pointless digs, similarly, I am attracted to NT women.
1) They don't have weird sensory issues or dumb inhibitions that interfere with sex.
2) They are more likely to be confident, can pay their own way, and take better care of themselves.
3) They are less likely to be emotionally unstable. I can talk to them like an adult instead of like a hysterical child.
Of course, the last one is not necessarily a problem. I feel the same way but don't show it, so sometimes it's nice to have someone around who gets me.
Still, I do like talking to adults some of the time.
Out of curiosity, this is based on how many AS women you know?
Probably a higher number than the number of aspie men whom Cafeaulait knows.
I´ve gotten to know quite a lot of aspie men, actually. Further, I am not offended by your post at all. I hope you find a nice gorgeous NT woman
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Was it a psychological thing? Since you knew they were autistic, were you unattracted because of that only? Maybe body type? *Shrug*
really ?
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Anyone else have this problem?
I mean being an Aspie myself, shouldn't I be attracted to them? Why am I only attracted to Neurotypicals?
Perhaps you changed your avatar but it's pretty obvious to me that you're a female with a capital FEM.
Ok, now for the bolded part, if you're not attracted to Aspie type guys then why are earth did you put that naughty topless photo on here!
You'll never get aspie guys to leave you alone doing that!!
That's just cruel to us, ya big meanie! =P
i dont understand why she has a pic like that as well lol.
her lower 1/2 is very feminine, nice stomach
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I'm the same way, I honestly don't care if he has Aspergers as long as he's able to control it, I can't be too choosy since I have it myself. The reason I prefer to date a neurotypical is because he would be different from me and I feel he could help me overcome my Aspergers. Not only that, but it would make him more understanding of people's differences and he value my uniqueness more than someone who is just like me would.
I'm nice to guys that like me that I don't like back, so I don't understand why some are upset with me. I'm not trying to be mean and this guy I liked since high school may be married or be a father, but I'm trying to find a new guy so please respect my feelings and don't tell me things about him that will upset me. I stopped looking at his Facebook for a reason and I have not contacted him so I'm not 'stalking' him anymore, I only fantize about him. I'm afraid to like another guy as well, I fear I might turn into a 'stalker' again also I'm never going to see him ever again so maybe my feelings for him will fade out.
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Was it a psychological thing? Since you knew they were autistic, were you unattracted because of that only? Maybe body type? *Shrug*
really ?
Yes. From the ones I've met in person. Thinner as in frame of their body.
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