Women can connect with me but not vicer versa

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KevinLA
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28 Jul 2013, 1:45 pm

I seem to have this problem.

A lot of women seem enthusiastic and friendly around me. They seem to have some sort of connection with me.

However, I don't feel the connection. I am not saying the connection does not exist. I just can't feel it. This hinders my ability to make relationships.

What can I do to feel the connection?



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28 Jul 2013, 2:18 pm

what's your level of autism.if your a more mid or lower level autism,with a good personality,
might be able to make friends with women but they will never date you.



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28 Jul 2013, 2:52 pm

Connection does not exist if it's not felt. Said women probably interpret some of the signals that you unintentionally send as showing interest, involvement or whatever.

Women also have a tendency to be attracted to men who aren't interested in them at all (and not interested in men who do show interest), which I guess is natural, so there's the possibility of an opposite explanation.