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Now that my sister is married, and I am back home, I, EquestriatoLA have this to say. And if you're going to troll me, don't bother posting.

I am 26. I still don't have a girlfriend (but that is being worked on as we speak....) and you know what? I am at peace with that. Some of you out on these forums have significant others, others do not, or choose not to. I realize that as an Aspie whose living and social skills are kinda behind others, I realize, things take time, and that in due time, I will find that woman, whether she's in Western Washington (where I am right now) or Los Angeles (where I'm destined to be). It's no use moping about me being single, so I have decided that I'm cool with being single, but when the time comes for that woman to come into my life, I will be ready for her all the way.

Cheers.

-EquestriatoLA

P.S.- I'm also sincerely sorry to those I offended during my first few days in Hawaii; as I said before, I was going through some emotional breakdowns and I NEVER meant to offend anyone.

Good luck with your partner search.

Good luck! I wish I had your optimism on dating and being single. I personally hate it. I used to enjoy it, but not so much anymore. I don't really have anybody. I don't even really have any friends that I can go out and do stuff with. The few friends I do have are all married and have kids, so they don't have much free time. I need to find somebody who's just like me in that aspect. I'm also naturally shy (although I have been getting better about that), so it's hard for me to talk to some people. I also have issues with self esteem. Mine's fairly low, but most of the time I can deal with it and hide my insecurities pretty well. People would tell you that they think I'm a pretty happy person if they didn't know I had a problem with it. However,whenever I have to deal with rejection or anything of that sort like I did this week, it's a huge blow to me.

Chicken butt.

I thought this way a long time ago. I had more of a darker approach though. But I'm glad you come at peace with it. I have myself somewhat. But I'm coming close to not ever caring anymore about making relationships.

Just gotta be patient, you all tell me. Thanks for that tip, guys.

There are days when I wish with everything in me, that I could be at peace as a single man. But I've been alone emotionally for so long, and every day feels like one more weight on my heart, mind, and soul. I've loved and trusted so few people in my life, most of them having betrayed or abandoned me. I need someone who I can see and hear, that loves and accepts me as I am. Otherwise, I'm afraid that place in my heart will remain cold and hardened.