What's a guy to do?

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Second post in a day, I think that's a record.

Girls, girls, girls.... boy, girls. What to say bout females: they hold uncontrollable power over men, to me at least women are a symbol of a different form of strength, and I am crazy for em. The sound of a woman's voice is one of the most pleasing things to hear in the world, and the sight of woman is a sight to behold indeed. So least goes to say I am utterly enamored by all aspects of a woman.

Two specific girls have my attention, though they lack the same amount thought I give them as they give to me. One girl is a close friend of mine about three years younger than me, but she has a boyfriend we keep in good contact. The other is a girl I met at school whom I shared a lot of the same interests with, I am not sure if she has a boyfriend or not and we don't keep in contact at all, in fact I haven't seen or spoken to her in about two months. The girl I keep in contact with will be going to the same college I am next semester, which to say the less makes me very happy as I will see her more often, and I've been thinking, I really want to be her boyfriend. A lot of problems here I know but there are several routes I can take. I can either:
A) Try to convince her to break up with her boyfriend and go out with me (a dick move on my part)
B) Wait for the relationship between her and her boyfriend to end (and it will I have foreseen it)
C) Do nothing wait for the next girl to come along. (what I've been doing)
But there is another girl, the one I met in class whom I have been unable to stay in contact with. As far as I can tell we still go to the same school yet we don't see each other at all. It was only sheer luck that I actually ran into her this semester. And I just don't know what to do or say if I ever see her again.

So what's a guy to do? My thoughts and feelings on love and women (particularly these women) have lead to declining grades, loneliness, and depression. And again I don't want to hear about how young I am or how much time I have, I'd rather find my true love early so I don't end up old until I find someone.

What im about to type, im sure you're going to think this is as stupid as i did when it was told to me but it makes sense and seems to be true. Quit worrying about it, you find the good ones when you arent looking and dont care.

Maybe us guys give off some weird vibe or something when we are seeking a partner and its a turnoff? i dont know? I do know that times when ive said to hell with it and quit worrying over it, seems the next thing i knew i was in a relationship.

Do you have her phone number, the girl at school? If so, ask her out.