Single ones: What's it gonna take for that someone to come?

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equestriatola
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23 Aug 2012, 6:15 am

And get your mind out of the gutter with that title. I am asking what will it take for you guys/gals who are still single for that man/woman of your dreams to come in to your life.
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23 Aug 2012, 6:54 am

It will require me to be able to look into his eyes and send off confident signals that I like him. It would help if I could flirt. I would also need to somehow overcome the extreme intensity of intimate physical contact without freaking out at the slightest touch. I need a guy with a battering ram to smash through all my defences.


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23 Aug 2012, 7:37 am

I have no idea. If I knew, then they would already be in my life.



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23 Aug 2012, 11:15 am

i think me making more of a effort would sort it im getting there slowly just trying to build my confidence up



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23 Aug 2012, 2:32 pm

zxy8 wrote:
I have no idea. If I knew, then they would already be in my life.

Exactly.



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23 Aug 2012, 3:54 pm

What an interesting question - probably just the right circumstances, I guess. From getting to know one or two people here (male), I can see that I would probably have an easier time if I tried to date aspies in real life - so I guess just the right aspie guy :) Am sure we'll find each other! Who knows, maybe we already have....



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23 Aug 2012, 11:45 pm

Personally, and not being depressed about it either, I just don't care anymore. I am not a believer that I will ever find someone that I know I will be happy and comfortable enough with to reach that level



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23 Aug 2012, 11:50 pm

I don't have much hope that they will come in to my life through the natural course of things. I have to work hard to find them. I just keep looking, keep trying, until they are found. I have a pretty good idea of who they are, so I just need to put my feelers out and hope to come into contact with them.



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23 Aug 2012, 11:53 pm

zxy8 wrote:
I have no idea. If I knew, then they would already be in my life.

Very well-put.


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23 Aug 2012, 11:54 pm

CrystalStars wrote:
zxy8 wrote:
I have no idea. If I knew, then they would already be in my life.

Very well-put.


Thanks :D



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24 Aug 2012, 12:27 am

Someone who's grown up a little bit. Might have to wait a while.


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24 Aug 2012, 2:18 am

The other person to initiate first, and in a way that leaves no gray area open to interpretation. Someone who would say something to the effect of: "Hey, why haven't you asked me out yet?" If they aren't that blunt, I will never try again.


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25 Aug 2012, 12:03 am

It's going to come down to mostly me. I have to learn to be my best self and know exactly what my purpose is in life in order for me to be with the right woman, and I may have to go through hundreds of women to do so.



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25 Aug 2012, 12:29 am

Not be a BBW

Not be Boring

Not be a b***h

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26 Aug 2012, 6:57 am

At this point, I think it's gonna take thousands of dollars worth of plastic surgery. :(


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26 Aug 2012, 9:04 am

A means of traveling to a parallel universe because there is no way she could be on this one.



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