when I was depressed,women approach me

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18 Oct 2013, 12:18 am

when I was between 16-24,I was depressed,low self esteem,terrible
with women,yet at this time period,I had two girlfriends,had sex,
had couple girls give me their phone number,had one girl,
that wanted me to kiss her,and always huggin me,and had
a girl that got close to me at a party.

yet,now Im more confident,good self esteem,and way
better with women,than I was at 16-24,yet I don't attract women,
like I use too.



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18 Oct 2013, 2:34 am

Were those women into the EMO trend or part of some other kind of underground cultural trend that attracts depressed teens?


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18 Oct 2013, 3:01 am

Probably was pity. More of an insult really.


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18 Oct 2013, 3:06 am

Wafflemarine wrote:
Probably was pity. More of an insult really.

It made him get laid though.

Maybe he looked like a "cute little puppy" to the girls when he was sad, not something most guys can pull off if you ask me.



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18 Oct 2013, 3:42 am

Or perhaps you were more yourself back then and now you have created a pretension by filling your mind with preconceptions of how love should be or what women want, that kind of arrogance can turn women off more than low self esteem.

Girls can get arrogance from mister pretty boy or mister status, they liked you because you offered something different, something genuine, down to earth and now you don't. A lot of guys end up worse off by following all this PUA stuff because it tries to turn them into someone else instead of working with what they already have.



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18 Oct 2013, 3:47 am

Ok, be depressed if you want.



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18 Oct 2013, 4:26 am

were just younger. people in that age range are much freer with their affections and hooking up
later, people want serious relationships so start getting picky..is just life



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18 Oct 2013, 4:40 am

leafplant wrote:
were just younger. people in that age range are much freer with their affections and hooking up
later, people want serious relationships so start getting picky..is just life

Operation natural selection, because all the guys will go to jail after they read your post and went on an underage-spree.



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18 Oct 2013, 5:53 am

Pretend you're depressed. Be sure to color your hair black, paint your nails back, get gauges in your ears, and wear the essential emo attire.



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18 Oct 2013, 5:54 am

Yeah, it works for Emo Dad!

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18 Oct 2013, 5:57 am

Let's help him by making him depressed.

Post depressing pictures.



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18 Oct 2013, 6:03 am

People like those make me depressed:
http://www.npr.org/templates/story/stor ... d=15858203

Get depressed bill!



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18 Oct 2013, 6:06 am

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18 Oct 2013, 6:10 am

You guys are so evil.

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A random search and I come upon this!



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18 Oct 2013, 6:12 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Let's help him by making him depressed.

Post depressing pictures.

Hot "friendly looking" chicks dating psychopaths pics maybe?



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18 Oct 2013, 6:13 am

Uprising wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Let's help him by making him depressed.

Post depressing pictures.

Hot "friendly looking" chicks dating psychopaths pics maybe?


^ For example!