Dancing is a great way to have fun with women.

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Ok so this is what you need to do. You need to go out there and find some kind of dancing that you like. Some recommendations: Contra dancing, regency dancing, square dancing, salsa, and swing dancing. These dances have the benefit of being largely rhythmic with many pre-defined steps and routines, and there's always a shortage of men in my experience. Women are always happy to have a good time with an enthusiastic dancer.

Yes, I highly advocate this. There are never enough men to dance with at the rare social things I go to. Taking dancing classes can boost your confidence too. At least if you know that you can dance after taking lessons then if you are at a wedding or something you'll have the confidence to ask that single girl in the corner to dance.

I'm pretty sure aspie guys are good dancers.

My dad dances like a chicken, or like someone doing the infamous chicken dance.

I used to be guilty of doing hover hands though when I was slowing with girls in my teens.

Dancing has always sounded fun, at least when I'm listening to music, but I'd probably manage to wreck the place.

Yeah, if nothing else those of us without a clue about personal boundaries (mine are 8m radius from my clothes outwards) will learn what constitutes Too Close.

I suk at dancing. I make the asians look good.

Every time I used to dance, I always embarrassed myself so I dont dance anymore.

Yes, do it.

Guys, it is really 100% socially acceptable to go up to random girls in a club and ask them to dance with you.

If you can, take Latin dance lessons. If you don't have a partner to go to take the class with, they can usually find you one.

I need to do nothing of the sort.

What I need to do is the resist the urge to crack open the skull of every dudebro who tells me that dancing or clubbing will solve my problems.

Rigor you have anger problems bro.

It's not a solution for all.

But being able to dance might be a benefit to some.

I think it will just allow you to get to know more women personally, but then again, some guys just join in the hope of getting laid, which will activate the b***h shield in most women there I think.

If I can't let it out on the internet, where can I?

Maybe a psychologist? I see a psychologist. There's nothing to be ashamed of with that. Also medication might help you. I'm not a doctor so I don't know but you are angry I can tell.

I've been seeing a psychologist for the past month. As much as I'd love to demand meds out of him or an associate of his I don't think that would work.

The workaround for the "b***h shield" is to dance with multiple women that appear to know each other and in most cases, they will unknowingly start competing with each other to take you home.

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Let's not turn this thread into gender-bashing, okay kiddies? In other words, Grow the feck up!

Dancing is...

... the vertical expression of a horizontal desire.

... the most fun you can have with another person while standing up.

... the hidden language of the soul.

... life, and you are the dancer.

... the ultimate expression of love for life.

... the purest way to express yourself outside of yourself.