"It'll happen when you know everything is right."

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So I recently got to see a good friend of mine who is now living in Northern California with her husband yesterday. I always envied her, you see when she met her husband at age 17 they were both virgins and they are now married, and very happily in love. When we had a moment of privacy I asked "how? How did it happen fore you so perfectly." She then whispered into my "It'll happen when you know everything is right." She then leaned away and said out loud (we were still in private so no one could here us anyway) "You're a very good man *my real name*, and you will meet a very lucky woman."

This made me feel better after a very sh***y week, and gave me some hope that there is some gal out there for me. But it got me to thinking did anyone else know the moment was right when you lost your virginity? Is there anyone else out there who is as lucky as my friend and her husband?

please don't tell me they meet at some random place. yeah,they are alot of lucky couples,and
I envy them.

They actually new each other since grade school but took till his senior of high school to ask her out.

And i generally find envy a petty emotion often no better than jealousy. But in this case I make an exception cause to me they are a one in a million chance.

ok,but if you do find a lady(get a gf),could you keep her(make the relationship last),because alot of asd men,
have a high rate of relationship failure.

I'm not ASD, I'm bi-polar but that doesn't make my chances any less or more better. I don't know if I can make a relationship last, that's pretty much for fate to tell, I also don't know if my friends relationship will last, I only speculate that it will cause her and her husband can get over fights easier than I've seen most couples.

I also don't believe in groups of people having higher rates of relationship failure than others, that's made up statistical bull-shit the kind of thing that has no true scientific backing, another word for it is called stereotyping.

From everything I've seen the "right" time is when you are grown and middle aged and women and men start looking for something stable and loving over sexy and fun. It's not pretty and I personally won't accept it but I've seen exceptions

For me, the "right" time was when she agreed to have sex with me. However, over 10 years later, I still have yet to have sex with someone I like romantically.

Yeah people who say that are full of bollocks. Sorry to break it to you.

I don't know who you are, she's one of my best friends, ever say she's full of "bollocks" again I'll hunt you down come to your house and drop a bag of bricks on your face while you sleep! I'm 100% Irish bring bollocks limey ass on!

Sorry...

I'm not trying to make a legitimate threat, just know that I really don't like when people insult the advice my friends give. What she said to me wasn't just the two sentences up here we had a very deep philosophical conversation on love that must've went on for hours, the two sentences was just how she ended the conversation. All you saw in the "threat" above was just the drunk Irish in me getting out.

I have vast star-knowledge that I achieved through meditation that goes before the begging of time. From looking into the far past I have seen the far future, and there is a woman in it. That's all my visions will show me not the type of woman or who she is, just that she is there. So it'll only be bollocks (god I hate the words Brits use) if I make it bollocks, and I will never turn it into bollocks.

Well, can't compete with that. Does this said woman come from Earth?

As far as I could tell she was, This should be about 150 years before humanity makes first contact. At least to the farthest extent of my meditation that is when we will make first contact.