Hey there!
Yep, I qualify for this too!
I am 30, though I appear much younger than that. I have long hair, no body hair, am pretty thin, and have sort of a feminine/androgynous appearance. Though I dont ACT feminine, really. Or flamboyant. I have a fiery personality, but I'm always polite and friendly.
I'd absolutely love to trade pics of any sort, that's often great fun. I'd love to chat and such too (via PM or also any of the major chat clients) about anything. Like you, I've been wanting to meet another gay (or bi) male, preferrably someone with some form of autism, be it asperger's or whatever.... that'd be really great. I never meet anyone otherwise, really.... it can be kinda depressing. All of my friends are straight, which is.... annoying. It definitely can make for a bit of a lack of understanding in some cases, as well as cutting off the possibility of chatting about certain types of subjects.
Do PM me if you'd like! I'd like that, I think.