Anybody use the Geek 2 Geek dating site?

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Eureka13
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31 Jan 2014, 5:55 pm

I've read some decent reviews of it, but haven't seen it listed in any of the "top dating site" reviews.

What about chemistry.com?

I want to find nerdy men who want to talk about science, gadgets, backyard ballistics, cars, motorcycles, etc. So many of the men on OKC are of the "enlightened" type and mostly into yoga, meditating, and vegetarianism/veganism.



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31 Jan 2014, 9:06 pm

I (male) used Geek 2 Geek back in 2010. It was horrible!! ! Way worse than mainstream dating sites. I had a lot of crap like one-line replies ("yea, me to" [sic]) to a well-written paragraph, nonsense replies, correspondences that went nowhere, phone number given but never picks up, and last-minute date cancellations. That was true even with genuinely geeky girls. I began to wonder whether "mean girls" types join that site strictly to mess with geeky guys they despise. The only site worse than that was Match.com (all I described, plus paying $50 a month). Geek 2 Geek is still around, but last time I checked it, it looked like a shadow of its former self.

By contrast, my good experiences were on OKCupid, and before it went downhill, on Plenty of Fish.



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31 Jan 2014, 9:21 pm

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I (male) used Geek 2 Geek back in 2010. It was horrible!! ! Way worse than mainstream dating sites. I had a lot of crap like one-line replies ("yea, me to" [sic]) to a well-written paragraph, nonsense replies, correspondences that went nowhere, phone number given but never picks up, and last-minute date cancellations. That was true even with genuinely geeky girls. I began to wonder whether "mean girls" types join that site strictly to mess with geeky guys they despise. The only site worse than that was Match.com (all I described, plus paying $50 a month). Geek 2 Geek is still around, but last time I checked it, it looked like a shadow of its former self.

By contrast, my good experiences were on OKCupid, and before it went downhill, on Plenty of Fish.


*Le sigh*

POF (at least in my area) is almost nothing but rednecks. I tried Match and eHarmony a few years ago, and they had almost exactly the same people that were on POF, only I had to pay for the privilege of reading their crappy profiles. LOL

Maybe after I retire in 3 years I'll move to Silicon Valley. ;)



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31 Jan 2014, 9:29 pm

I think it is pretty rare to find guy who is into all those things you listed AND who expects to talk about them with an equally knowledgeable lady friend. Just as you are pretty unique lady being who you are. I must admit I am really enjoying OKC so far. People are responding and even messaging me first and some have even liked my profile and I don't even have a photo. Of course I am not looking for dates or anything specific or real so that probably helps. And I like veggie yoga loving dudes too. But I also came across this 50 yr old woman who looks younger than me and sounds so awesome I sort of want to marry her. Sadly she is straight and I am not a guy.

You said in another thread that you discovered that you weren't really ready to date so why not just look for friendly humans to connect with for now?



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31 Jan 2014, 9:36 pm

I have to tell you that I write freelance on-line for agencies. I routinely see people wanting to hire writers to create fake personalities for dating sites. Just saying.



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31 Jan 2014, 10:22 pm

Hell what do you need a site like that for? I know tons of people that love to discuss attainment of stoichiometry in the application of cylindrical PVC, WD-40, and garden vegetables.

...although most of them quit when I tried to bring in oxy/acetylene mixes, but oh how far that spud would have gone!

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31 Jan 2014, 11:14 pm

leafplant wrote:
I think it is pretty rare to find guy who is into all those things you listed AND who expects to talk about them with an equally knowledgeable lady friend. Just as you are pretty unique lady being who you are. I must admit I am really enjoying OKC so far. People are responding and even messaging me first and some have even liked my profile and I don't even have a photo. Of course I am not looking for dates or anything specific or real so that probably helps. And I like veggie yoga loving dudes too. But I also came across this 50 yr old woman who looks younger than me and sounds so awesome I sort of want to marry her. Sadly she is straight and I am not a guy.

You said in another thread that you discovered that you weren't really ready to date so why not just look for friendly humans to connect with for now?


Yeah, I just want someone to talk to, for now, not to date. My female friends aren't into any of those things, and I am experiencing a severe lack of male friends at the moment.



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31 Jan 2014, 11:18 pm

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Hell what do you need a site like that for? I know tons of people that love to discuss attainment of stoichiometry in the application of cylindrical PVC, WD-40, and garden vegetables.

...although most of them quit when I tried to bring in oxy/acetylene mixes, but oh how far that spud would have gone!

Sincerely,
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Seriously? Send 'em my way - we can talk about my collection of tuber shooters and/or my trebuchet that has a 400-lb motorcycle engine/frame assembly as the counterweight! And grill up some rare bovine flesh while we're doing it! :D

I've never tried WD-40 as a propellant, BTW - only hair spray and starter fluid.....but I do have some (very distant past) experience with oxy/acetylene. :)



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01 Feb 2014, 12:04 am

Starter fluid...ah....being a mechanic for several years means I took several trips a month to visit the ether bunny :lol:


I want to hear more about this siege weapon, though. V-Twin?



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01 Feb 2014, 2:51 am

I tried Geek2Geek a few years ago & didn't have any luck but I didn't on any dating site thou. Like most dating sites g2g had a major surplus of men to women so you may have much better luck than me & lots of guys there do. You could try it for a while & see but like on any dating site be careful.


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01 Feb 2014, 8:08 am

Thanks for the reviews advising that geek 2 geek is just another dating site with limited outcomes. Gender balance ratio is closer on paid sites and fake accounts added to lure in males may explain why paid sites seem more appealing than free dating sites.



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01 Feb 2014, 10:05 am

loudzoo wrote:
Starter fluid...ah....being a mechanic for several years means I took several trips a month to visit the ether bunny :lol:


I want to hear more about this siege weapon, though. V-Twin?


Inline 4 out of a 1984 Yamaha Seca Turbo. It had been sitting in someone's pasture for 5 years or so and the cylinders were frozen, the turbo blown, and the wiring harnesses rotted. We stripped it down to frame and motor and used the rear axle as the pivot point to hang it as the counterweight. Hmm, I'm pretty sure I have a photo....

I do, but can't get it to post here....the image link just posts the text link, and doesn't show the photo (using Photobucket).



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01 Feb 2014, 2:05 pm

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Aspie1 wrote:
I (male) used Geek 2 Geek back in 2010. It was horrible!! ! Way worse than mainstream dating sites. I had a lot of crap like one-line replies ("yea, me to" [sic]) to a well-written paragraph, nonsense replies, correspondences that went nowhere, phone number given but never picks up, and last-minute date cancellations. That was true even with genuinely geeky girls. I began to wonder whether "mean girls" types join that site strictly to mess with geeky guys they despise. The only site worse than that was Match.com (all I described, plus paying $50 a month). Geek 2 Geek is still around, but last time I checked it, it looked like a shadow of its former self.

By contrast, my good experiences were on OKCupid, and before it went downhill, on Plenty of Fish.


*Le sigh*

POF (at least in my area) is almost nothing but rednecks. I tried Match and eHarmony a few years ago, and they had almost exactly the same people that were on POF, only I had to pay for the privilege of reading their crappy profiles. LOL

Maybe after I retire in 3 years I'll move to Silicon Valley. ;)


I was reading this blog of a serial single some time ago and one of the writers main points was that after a while it was pretty pointless.

Lets face it: We all know the free dating sites and whatnot so you are high likely to find a replica of the same profiles you didnt like in POF, okcupid... very few people stick to just one dating site hoping to find someone different and they tend to find the same profiles which is very discouraging(is there nobody else left?, am I doomed to be alone?...)

So in short changing your dating site wont is unlikely to change the people you meet.
You may try looking at nearby areas if you think that this redneck thing could be less of an issue(I knew redneck areas attract redneck areas but it wouldnt hurt to have a look)



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01 Feb 2014, 2:55 pm

Yeah, OKCupid seems to have the most robust membership, but I have to search >300 miles away to find anyone remotely interesting. And then most of them, since they live in big(ger) cities, have a much larger pool of prospects local to them, so they're not interested in striking up a conversation with someone no distant, no matter how much we may seem to have in common.

@loudzoo - I'm originally from North Central Florida myself. What part of N. Florida do you call home?



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01 Feb 2014, 10:56 pm

Oh goodness - it's terrible that someone would let such a thing rot in a pasture, but totally awesome that you saved it from said fate.

I'm shacked up just outside of Panama City. Used to live a stone's throw away from you though, up in Wyoming.



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01 Feb 2014, 11:14 pm

Pretty area. My sister still lives near Tallahassee, but I think the western panhandle is by far the prettiest part of the state. I was just there visiting in May of last year.

Yeah, it was a shame the Seca had been so mistreated. One of these days I need to eBay the parts salvaged off it - the plastics are still in good condition (the previous owner had them stored separately from the frame/motor).