Men, would you date a hot girl with a crap personality?

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Like the former form of Britney Spears for ex.

Well, we have a bit of an advantage what concerns that, since in at least 90% of those cases, we just can't date such types or even approach them without getting in trouble in lots of ways.

Really depends on what kind of crap personality. I have to accept I have my own faults and be willing to forgive some of hers, as long as she acknowledges them as well.

If it's the abrasive kind of crap personality I'm out for sure.

I did that once. It didnt last long.

The first person I dated since leaving school.

She looked like Paulina Porzikova (the famous supermodel of the late Eighties who costared with Tom Selleck in a dumb thriller).

But she was a very strange, very troubled, and rather manipulative person.

Long story short: lost touch with her, and gradually sequed from being conflicted to being happy that Id lost touch with her-and that other men were dealing with her, and her issues.

No.

yes I would. On how long I would date her depends on how much I can put up with her.

Never. Personality is more important than looks every time. Personality is the primary thing that attracts me to someone, and looks are a bonus. Though something that would put me off is if someone was morbidly obese, though I think this would be reflected in their personality in such a way as to put me off to be honest, as I like people who want to be doing things - and those who are morbidly obese generally can't be bothered in my experience.

No. I don't see a point in wasting time knowing a jerk or a bimbo, or someone abusive. No matter HOW good she looks (or what her other talents might be). I would just find it exceptionally exhausting and irritating. I would feel like s**t about my SELF for continuing...


Crap I need to dump my girlfriend.

I've never dated anyone, period, because I'm repulsive. But if I were lucky enough to even be in this purely hypothetical situation, someone on the other thread related to this one said it best: There's no such thing as crappy personalities, just ones that aren't compatible with mine.

The operative thing here is whether or not THEY LIKE ME. If they like me, then I don't care how "crappy" her personality is otherwise.

But I'm afraid to approach women with "crap personalities" (well, I'm afraid to approach women, period....but triply so for women with "Crap-personalities") precisely for the reason that such women are more likely to reject me. And reject me in a way that is most cruel and gruesome.

Nope, airheads don't do anything for me, I want someone with a brain & mind of their own.

No, not at all.

My ex-GF had a crap personality.
She was a self-centered jerk who never accepted the fact that I am an Aspie. I'm glad I dumped her and I have never felt more free.

Been there, done it, regretted it. Never again.

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I did once. It lasted a month before I dumped her.

I'm figuring that your thread is a copy off the one for the females and the lady that posted it said that by crap personality, she doesn't mean a mean person or someone with some sort of horrible personality disorder or whatever, but just a boring person or dumb person.

The girl I dated that was attractive was boring to me because we had absolutely nothing in common. I hated hanging out with her and she always wanted to be around me. Finally I just couldn't take it anymore so I broke up with her.