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I had a question. My husband loves to bite and tickle me even though i HATE it! I have told him I hate it and worse, he wants to do it in sex. It turns him off but turns me off. Is it an Aspie thing that bites and tickles bother me so much?

I think everyone hates being tickled. I wouldnt want to be bitten.

Mock-biting can be sexy and affectionate if it's not painful, though I've had one partner who simply could not control themselves and there was nothing sexy about it. Teeth marks are not a hickey.

Tickling is affectionate for about 2 seconds, after which it becomes annoying and very quickly after that, cruelty. I don't see how it could possibly be sexy, it's far too intense a sensation and distracts completely from everything else. I would consider tickling a total sexual mood-killer, because my involuntary response to tickling is to elbow the attacker in the ribs.

Some people don't feel a thing of it.

Personally I hate it so much I even prefer getting battered instead. (the tickling that is)