no idea how to go about flirting and dating

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hi everyone,

I've been single for a long time and have no idea how to go about flirting or dating people. My last partner was the one who initiated things back then. I don't often feel attracted to people, but the other day I met someone who I can't stop thinking about. He is a training masseur and I got a massage from him. I don't know whether to go back to him again now or not. I don't know whether I have any chance of forming a relationship with him. It seems the only guys I meet I meet in situations where it's not really a social occasion if you know what I mean. LIke is it okay to meet someone this way? How could it possibly go any further? Or is it wrong? is it just too tricky in this situation?

You can say something like, "I know you are busy right now, but maybe we could get together sometime for coffee". You don't risk much suggesting a possibility. The key is going to be in the answer;

1. I'm usually pretty busy - Thanks but no thanks.
2. My girlfriend/wife and I don't get out much - Too late
3. We are not allowed to meet clients - Could be true or a real closed door.
4. Yeah, that might be fun - distant, if not follow through, then probably not interested.
5. Yeah, that might be fun. How about after work - real interest