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hudsense
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07 Oct 2013, 8:43 am

TM1337FalconPunch wrote:
auntblabby wrote:
I guess I value peace more than you do.
If two people really gel well together any disagreements that occur will be isolated and resolvable.


I think that statement hits the nail on the head. The 'constant' arguing in a healthy, long-lived relationship just needs to be some variation of what you said. It becomes a problem when it is fighting for the sake of it, or one sided and abusive.

The argument must lead to peace, and arguing must be ... minor.



WantToHaveALife
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10 Mar 2014, 9:51 pm

yellowlab wrote:
Hey everyone 24 year old and have never had a girlfriend in my life but I'm okay with that and if I find that right person that I feel I supposed to be with that would be great but if I don't that will be okay as well. I was wonderfing how other Aspies feel on the topic I find some on here that prefer to stay single. Another question I have are relationships hard for Aspies that is one thing I worry about is that it would be to stressful for me. I hope I'm making sense and I hope all is doing great.


my gut feeling tells me there are more male late bloomers than female late bloomers



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10 Mar 2014, 9:57 pm

LeLetch wrote:
^ Apparently, being unique is generally only attractive if you're unique like everybody else.


True that.
I may be socially odd but I met a girl that is socially awkward - and that it was awesome.