Women are fickle, ever-changing emotional creatures, driven almost entirely by their pheromonal processing units, also known as the limbic brain. They can go from being hot and horny in one instant, to being completely cold and aloof in the next. The trick to getting into her pants is the timing and the hormonal pressure. Upon meeting, you will want to be very offish, physically speaking, unless she is on some chemically induced high which makes physical sensations feel extra good to her. This will be obvious. She'll stand "too close" or make it seem "just right" to put your arm around her, or something. You should go with it if that happens, but it's rare. Otherwise, keep your distance for a while, and charm her with your eyes and your strong, powerful voice. What you actually say is completely irrelevant 90% of the time. Your words don't even have to make sense or be English. Foreign guys, fear not, for you can just go up to a woman who is open and available and start talking to her in your native tongue. So long as you are sending out massive quantities of non-verbal communication (facial expressions, body language, tone of voice), she will be responsive. She won't know what the hell you are saying, verbally, but 90% of the time they don't anyway, even when a guy speaks perfect english to her. She will, however, be fully picking up all of your non-verbal signals, and read your intentions perfectly in her lower level of hormonally-mediated limbic systems. This is key. A woman will RARELY respond to verbal sexual desires (unless she's a hooker), but she will almost always respond to non-verbal ones, even if she's married (sometimes especially if she's married - and hates the guy, like most married women). Don't let the fact that she has a boyfriend deter you. Many women in supposedly "committed" relationships are completely disgusted with the guy, but are too needy and scared to leave him and are just looking for a good enough excuse to ditch the loser.
Once you have successfully gotten her to maintain eye contact with you for a good length of time (several seconds at least), read the desire in her eyes. If it's cold and uncaring, she still needs work. Try to subtly plant some seeds of ideas involving mating, and make sure it?s non-verbal. It must be ambiguous enough that she won?t be able to pinpoint it as filthy, but that she will definitely pick up the connotations in it if her mind is human and red-blooded at all. If you can subtly make it seem like it was her idea or that?s what she was really thinking all along (it may very well be on her mind at that point anyway, or soon in the future ? time lines become blurred with such things), and act like you are simply responding to her initiation of dirty ideas, then all the better.
Once her eyes become slitty and she looks like a predator just waiting to pounce and eat up it's prey, then you are all set. She is primed and ready for phase 2, physical advances. She should either be already giving you little touches on the shoulder or at least threatening it by this point. Give her a few gentle touches to gauge just how raring she is. If she responds with touches of her own, then she is so hot that she's practically melting, especially if she touches your leg! If she's kind of offish about you being that close, she may be a nun.
Don't get your hopes up if you go to the physical stage and she's unappreciative of it. Once you cross that boundary, it's a steep slope to the bedroom, so if she's not willing to make the initial leap, then you may have a dud on your hands. The best thing to do at that point is to subtly start acting like a jerk. Tell her something about herself that is unflattering (like her name sounds like the name of a stripper, or that you are glad she took off her coat because she looks fat in it, etc). This seems counter-productive, but many women love jerks, so it actually works. It can even take a situation that has gone nearly completely sour, and turn it around into sweet lovemaking. If at any point in time, she seems unresponsive of your comments / glances, then you MUST engage the "jerk engine" in order to salvage any hope of her thinking you are more than a piece of goo stuck to her shoe. If you engage "jerk mode" and she's STILL a b***h, tell her it was an absolute pleasure meeting her, and saunter off. At no point in time should you ask her out verbally, or make any verbal indication of your intentions. If she's really shy and not looking into your eyes frequently enough to get the hint, then you will have to make some kind of utterance to the effect that you'd like to see her again. Make it subtle, vague, ambiguous and completely open to mis-interpretation. This will not only salvage your pride (in her mind - a proper seducer of women HAS no pride), but it will also elicit a response indicative of what is actually on her mind. She will interpret your ambiguous statement in whatever way matches up with her current train of thought, and she will automatically assume that's what you meant and respond to it as if it was what you had meant. Pay close attention to her answer, and interpret which variant she is responding to. This is where the double entendre comes in VERY handy. Something subtle enough that if she's focussed on something else that she won't notice the innuendo, but that if she has sex on her mind at all (most do), then she'll pick up immediately on the connotations and send out massive amounts of non-verbal information indicating her interest in that. She'll also probably make some snide comment (which should be mostly ignored) about your sexual advances. If her comment is overwhelmingly positive and leads into further innuendo, GO WITH IT. She's the intellectual type and is up for a battle of wits to get her creative juices (and other juices) flowing for you.
So assuming that she is responsive to the physical touching, you can gradually increase their intensity. Make it seem like you are under a spell of lust and that you are completely powerless to it's influence. She will read your body language and take this as the ultimate sexual compliment. She will interpret it as you having fallen so completely and fully into a pit of desire for her and will start thinking of ways she could capitalize on this opportunity. Women want to be with a guy who is so full of lusty desire for her. Your lovemaking should reflect this for maximal benefits on both sides. It takes some work to get her to actually genuinely believe that you have fallen for her this way, however. Typically, they do not believe in "love at first sight" (aka lust at first sight). What they really want is lusty desire, but they don't think that's what they want, so you have to trick them into getting what they need so badly. They think that if you experience lust for her without first being "won over" or "tamed" by her, then it's dirty and gross. However, if you are completely put off by her at first, and then after talking for a while start getting sexually excited and full of desire, then she thinks there is more to it than a quick and dirty roll in the hay. She thinks that you are like her (you are not), and that once you've been won over, it's hard to get rid of you. It of course makes sense that women would think this way, they believe that everyone is like them because they aren't conscious enough to realize that other people (genders specifically) are different in very specific and important ways. Additionally, she has lived her whole life with this point of reference, having known personally no other way to think or feel or behave, and so she cannot possibly empathize with a guy's alternative point of view. This is why women like gay guys so much, they think, emote, and act like a woman, and it makes her feel comfortable and empathetic. These guys, of course, fall short in the final run, however, which requires manly forcefulness and so it's a no-win situation for most women unless they meet a guy who has figured out her subtle insane nuances.
Primal sexual desire is one area where men and women actually coincide. Naturally, they have to biologically speaking, or else the species would never have propagated to this point. The way they go about it in modern society, however, is completely different because women are less robust in terms of self-identity (this is proven by the fact that BPD is almost completely a disorder of women), and so they are much more suceptible to marketing ploys and scare tactics. Woman's magazines, feminazis, hollywood, the media at large have all contributed to warping women's minds into a psychologically twisted mess that is very difficult to figure out.
So to summarize, basically a woman wants a guy to be full of strong, manly desire for her and be able to throw her onto the bed and ravage her body, but she is untrusting and skeptical. So you have to act like you are also untrusting and skeptical at first so that she will not only empathize with you, but actually be put on the offensive and think that SHE has to win YOU over. The key is to be nonchalant and act like you can do without it. Do not become emotional or desperate about the situation or else you?ve blown it. You have to think and act like she is the one who wants it so badly and you are the one who is dishing it out to lucky participants. If you portray this attitude well, she will pick up on it subconsciously (in her dominant limbic brain), and act to try and get what it is that you are perceived to be dangling on a string in front of her. Once she starts her subtle campaign of non-verbal attempts to speak to your limbic brain (of course you do not work this way, but she doesn't know it), you have to be very observant and carefully pick up on what she is saying non-verbally. You can basically ignore her words, and you should rarely, if ever, ask her to repeat herself. If you didn't hear something because it's noisy or she mumbled, just look into her eyes, and you will see the reaction she is expecting and give it. If you can't figure it out, just smile and nod, this is 90% of the time an acceptable reaction that she is looking for unless she's heavily into some deep monologue about her childhood trauma, however, if this is happening she's more than just averagely f****d up and you might want to consider seducing a woman who won't end up beating the s**t out of you, emotionally, physically, whatever. After a time, she will send out her non-verbal signals saying "touch me". So do it. Then gradually work your way to more intimate touching, and eventually kissing. Try to make the kissing happen when you are in a secluded place where you'd both be willing to have sex because once that starts, it's all downhill from there. The worst thing you can do once you've started putting on physical advances is to pause the pressure. Do not let her go to the bathroom when you are in the heat of the moment. It may seem like she is preparing herself for sex, but she is likely trying to talk herself out of sex. If you?ve been giving and receiving innuendo all night and she?s made up her mind to have sex with you, then she will have prepared before you started getting hot and heavy. Any time that she leaves for a moment and comes back, she may have repeated things to herself like "oh god, what am I doing? this is not right" hundreds of times until she actually believes it. Then you basically have to go back several steps and start over, building her up again. So long as you are there and are more interesting (non-verbally) than her f****d up internal thought process, she will go with whatever you are feeding into her brain, rather than her childhood trauma-induced thought errors. And who wouldn't rather think about sex than childhood trauma??
A key important thing to take out of this is that non-verbal communication speaks to her inner limbic brain, which is less highly evolved, and she has more of a sensible grasp over. Verbal communication speaks to her outer layers which have evolved in her biologically, but she's not mature enough psychologically to be able to make sense of it. Women are terrible verbal communicators, they answer "where" questions with "when" and generally don't make any sense when they speak. They aren't nearly as highly evolved as men in that sense, and so if you are going to be successful with women, you have to be a jerk verbally (which is what she has come to expect and makes her feel comfortable and at home), but be a sensitive, dominant, sexually charged caveman non-verbally - which is what she really wants but can't express it verbally because of the former.
Think of a woman as a really sane, sweet, biologically driven being trapped inside a big, thick, opaque bubble. So in order to communicate she pokes the inside of the bubble which causes ripples to appear on the outside and she's not only hoping, but fully expecting you to interpret those signals. She is inside the bubble, so she can't see that the ripples are distorted on the other side, and gets confused and annoyed when you don't read her strange sequence of morse-code-like pokes that she's sending (apparently to her) as clear as day. Your job is to look at those ripples, figure out what they mean, and poke her bubble to send information back to her. From her point of view, using verbal communication is complicated and difficult because the bubble distorts the sound waves and your communication comes through as mumbling. Likewise, when she tries to yell through the bubble, it comes out all jumbled.
The main problem with inter-gender relations is that nobody realizes that this bubble exists or if they do, they don't know how to deal with it. The trick is to learn a new language, not french or german, but womanese. The secret is that it's not a verbal language, though some components of it are audible (tone of voice, grunts, etc). It is a very primitive, primal, outdated language, but an effective one if you can master it. Think back to prehistoric times. The most complex utterance that could be understood consisted of two main components - initial sound frequency (pitch) and direction of change of frequency (higher pitch vs. lower pitch). Nearly everybody (except hard-core super evolved autistics) use this to some extent. For instance, at the end of a question, the pitch tends to increase to higher frequencies. A steady, unchanging, low pitch is used to express disapproval in the case of the nagging tone or murmur (like the mumbles that Marge makes in disapproval of Homer), and many other examples left as an exercise to the reader. Other nonverbal cues that are commonly understood include a smile (happy), a frown or welling up of tears (sad), up-turned, crinkly nose (disgust), etc. There are many more which women use on a daily basis, and a person can have an entire communication session with a woman and not utter a single word.
Drew mcpherson
27 May 2014, 8:54 am
Where did you get that from? It made me LOL 
