Dating losers

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This is fake, but it may give you a couple of clues on what not to do.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AC5BIuhQBy0[/youtube]

Hah, I have seen this before. "Jeff" actually has his own channel on youtube and has a few hilarious videos with a similar character (a dungeons and dragons gamemaster).

Could you post a link?

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Mp7Ikko8SI&list=UUp2OPBqhHY8aBnW_NwSiryA[/youtube]

Kinda confused about why they are supposed to be losers....cause they aren't the most attractive looking guys in the world and most seemed nervous?....suppose I don't get how that constitutes a loser exactly. I was thinking maybe it was a video of scum-bag sort of guys, I didn't really get that out of this video.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xiR_6zYgotQ[/youtube]

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AojNwmy0Ono[/youtube]

gah, that was tough to sit thru. the standard. " dated a guy with aspergers(not diagonosised), so I know what they are all like.

either I'm one of the rare aspies or that stereotype is just a stupid stereotype.
most of what she said doesn't apply to me. I love being touched. I love hearing about the woman I like, I try hard to reach out, to be apart of their life. I am emotional, not very logical evolved human lol. I can't believe I sat thru all 35 mins of that. doesn't seem she had much of anything good to say about people with aspergers, just alot of how he didn't do this for me or help me with this, me, me, me, me.

I can only guess why she blocked comments.

/\ Unfortunately I'm more than slightly in line with who she describes

http://www.healthboards.com/boards/aspe ... rgers.html

One man's loser is another man's winner. And what may appeal to most women will not appeal to all. There's such a thing as personal taste and preferences and these things are not universal.

Plenty of geeky, nerdy guys are not even half that bad looking. They just wear outdated clothing, often don't groom or take care of themselves physically as well as they should. You wouldn't believe what kind of effect one single shower can have on some of them, making a dud a stud in no time. People are so quick to call others 'losers' but it's all very subjective.

if true then hopefully you see you have things to try to work on. I do know there are aspies like what she described, but we are a spetrucm so can't all like that. I guess I just get that alot and I'm like i'm not like that so I feel unfairly judged based on a sterotype not based on who I am. I have problems yes. I am working on not saying stuff and trying to think it thru, hard with both aspergers and adhd. I do get stuck on things, but I have learned to tell somewhat when people are bored, like they don't say stuff back and I want a back and forth talk. I don't know how to change subjects well, something others have to help me with. I don't have routines, so this confuses me, I suppose I did when i was younger maybe. and i like stuff a certian way, like blanker over sheets,but isn't that how its suppose to be?