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27 Aug 2014, 9:31 am

I noticed that it happens that the pretty girl bind themselves emotionally with a man who is not especially handsome, and do not count on a quick divorce or inheritance :D This little joke.

The same is true with men. who are associated with not very beautiful women who do not have a sizeable dowry :)

The same is true with homosexuals of both sexes.

How is it that can sometimes someone falls in love with someone ugly.



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27 Aug 2014, 9:36 am

They have wads of cash.

Go to any wealthy area and you will see an older man and a younger woman in some cases, not all but you do see it.



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27 Aug 2014, 9:40 am

AlexanderDantes wrote:
They have wads of cash.

Go to any wealthy area and you will see an older man and a younger woman in some cases, not all but you do see it.


But i mean the situation when chick or guy are not rich at all, but yet handsome guy or pretty girl find them attractive somehow :D
Does is not weird?



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27 Aug 2014, 9:41 am

pawelk1986 wrote:
AlexanderDantes wrote:
They have wads of cash.

Go to any wealthy area and you will see an older man and a younger woman in some cases, not all but you do see it.


But i mean the situation when chick or guy are not rich at all, but yet handsome guy or pretty girl find them attractive somehow :D
Does is not weird?


Sometimes women want to be the center of attention or to get the attention, sometimes a guy getting too much attention can be a real turn off for the woman so she will look for better attributes like social prowess or how developed he is in his career as these are much more valuable traits towards providing for a family.



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27 Aug 2014, 10:11 am

pawelk1986 wrote:
I noticed that it happens that the pretty girl bind themselves emotionally with a man who is not especially handsome, and do not count on a quick divorce or inheritance :D This little joke.

The same is true with men. who are associated with not very beautiful women who do not have a sizeable dowry :)

The same is true with homosexuals of both sexes.

How is it that can sometimes someone falls in love with someone ugly.


Sometimes it's what's inside that makes someone attractive.



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27 Aug 2014, 10:15 am

Yep....there are times when this is true :D



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27 Aug 2014, 10:18 am

pawelk1986 wrote:
How is it that can sometimes someone falls in love with someone ugly.


Cause most of the general population is semi-ugly but don't perceive themselves that way.



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27 Aug 2014, 12:43 pm

Some people don't make physical attractiveness a high priority and are happy if the relationship is good in other ways. And some people may find a non-conventionally attractive person very attractive to them.



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27 Aug 2014, 1:29 pm

Seriously?? You believe that attractiveness is solely based on photogenicness??

This is like believing that transportation is based solely on wheels.

Think about this for a while and I'm sure you'll see thousands of reasons beyond any single opinion/version of "beauty."


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27 Aug 2014, 1:33 pm

There are millions of reasons, why don't you ask them?



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27 Aug 2014, 1:37 pm

Rabbers wrote:
Some people don't make physical attractiveness a high priority and are happy if the relationship is good in other ways. And some people may find a non-conventionally attractive person very attractive to them.


^^This.



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27 Aug 2014, 1:45 pm

That may be because:
1. Looks are not crazily important in overal attractiveness for that person
2. The person finds his/her conventionally unattractive partner very attractive

And probably plenty of other reasons.



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27 Aug 2014, 1:59 pm

Well some guys will go for less attractive girls, because those girls might have certain skills. I'll let you guess what those skills are.



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27 Aug 2014, 2:13 pm

CommanderKeen wrote:
Well some guys will go for less attractive girls, because those girls might have certain skills. I'll let you guess what those skills are.



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27 Aug 2014, 2:36 pm

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.


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27 Aug 2014, 3:02 pm

animalcrackers wrote:
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.


Well looks are one aspect of value as i said.

There's also other aspects like the emotional triggers you engage in someone, the sexual response you invoke and also providing or defending your loved ones so there are many traits as to why people date.