Girl at work interested in me

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I recently started a new catering job have worked twice with said girl g . g tried to do my top button up when my shirt was buttoned wrong and seemed to touch me lightly on the bag during the shift . not sure how to proceed is she into me?

I figure you meant "back"? Not.... not... well....

Haha back I meant

I think she is into you, speaking from touching experience. Try flirting back to her.

i'd proceed with caution. i once had an attractive guy do this to me. he was very touchy-feely, baked me banana bread on valentine's day, put a flower in my hair, told me about a girl he dated in the past... i was convinced he was into me and as a result i ended up developing feelings for him. and then later i found out that he's an overly friendly gay guy who's still in the closet and that he does those sort of things with everyone he knows. not saying that this is the same sort of situation, i'm just saying proceed with caution, friend.

It could mean nothing. Some women are just touchy-feely type of people, it doesn't mean they have a crush on you. I've been hugged plenty of times by different women but they were never into me anything more than just a friend. Women can be hard to read but never assume they are into you without doing your research.

Easier said than done for some.

At the start of the shift she asked another girl how was her love life she told another girl she felt tense sometimes

Suggestions?

idk, try talking to her about something random.

Lol. This seems sooooo familiar. I got nothing to help though so just good luck

Yeah, there's no way to tell just by that.

It goes beyond this. Every woman I asked told me if I hadn't picked up on it I'm an idiot. But then again, when they hear the story and not just see it themselves they only hear what you want them to.


In other words, You have only one way to find out. And its not us you gotta ask.
Or you can just move on if you don't want to take the risk.

Your handle is 'accountlad'. If this is a professional environment and you are an accountant, go slow.

If this is just some some summer job or a 'filler' before you land the real one, what the heck go for it.

Nothing wrong with dating coworkers. You just need to think about whether things would be ok at work if this went further, or if things don't work out if there'd be any weirdness. Put the brakes on if weirdness is going to happen.

I'd say take things slow and really try to get to know this girl first. I'm a firm believer in keeping dates informal. See if you could arrange a gtg with all or most of your coworkers afterhours. It would be a shame to let things go too far too fast only to realize one or both of you will only get hurt by this.

I worked with her on Saturday kept telling me my boxers were showing lol . Michael its a part time job till I go back to Uni.