Loyalty vs virulence

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Hello everyone,

A couple years ago when I was researching about autism, and questioning autism because I was recently diagnosed with autism, I read a blog or a personal website from someone (and his twitter account), and according to him the female mind values virulence and the male mind values loyalty.

Does anyone agree?

I agree, the women I met so far in my life all seems to have this love for virulence.
I actually think this is a difference between the male and female mind.

This can also explain why many girls actually fall in love with bad boys, who often are very virulent against other people.

So many people have experienced this, but noone seems to be honest and just accept this simple truth.

This could also explain why females most of the time don't like 'nice males'.

What is virulence? Are you talking about hostility?

Virulence in the biological sense, the act of producing pathogens in someone by doing things that are not allowed.

Let me give an example:

Female 1: is communicating with male 1 (male 1 is a random poorly known acquantance)
Male 2: a friend (of female 1) or potential mate for female 1.

Female 1: is trying to let male 2 do things for her, while she is smiling to male 1 because she let male 2 do things for her, while she actually don't care about male 2, but just enjoy this virulence act. After, she date with male 3, because she's the "one". A couple of years later, she seems to not fit male 3 because she is a hooker who actually is not her type.

You've lost me completely.

Let me explain it in a different way.

The female mind is less loyal against other females in comparison with males between eachother.

Perhaps you can understand what fairness and loyalty is?

Know let me explain the term virulence.

Virulence is the opposite of loyalty, actually enjoying not to be loyal, enjoying to 'create' pathogens in a person.


My English is not perfect, I'm sorry.

Yes, hostility is also a good definition!

I suppose if I valued virulence, I might say women value virulence

But no, I disagree with the hypothesis.

Ok, thanks for your opinion, but I still believe this to be true, I didn't see 1 women who wasn't

btw, this could also explain why women are more likely to gossip...
which I think is a fact noone can deny.

I wouldn't expect my opinion to change yours I thought I'd better respond to the OP since I'd joined the conversation by asking a question.

It was just a statement. I have seen a bird flying, is also a statement.

I also disagree. This hypothesis has no validity IMHO.

"virulent: as a : extreme bitterness or malignity of temper"

Ok that out of the way, my opinion on the matter:

Personally, i find the type of men (the virulent kind) not attractive - aggressive men puts me off, and make me nervous and relationship wise i'd never feel at ease with a guy like that.
I do though feel attracted men who are outgoing and friendly, and who are kind and caring, considerate - thats more of what i take liking of when in search for a partner

Actually, in my experience, women value loyalty rather virulently.

Men virulently value loyalty as well.