12 ways to make yourself more attractive (Not appearance.)

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Thought this was interesting & might be of value to others here.

http://www.bustle.com/articles/55228-12 ... CMfacebook

Normally the word 'Reddit' is where I would stop reading. But at least it's not full of the regular BS on that site. Check on all 12 for me. Very true.

I liked that this article ended either Elsa embracing her independence/sexuality. Did you notice that by the end of that video she becomes more curvy? Lol. Yes female independence = increased sexuality. Not.
Why women's autonomy has become synonomis with sexual desire is beyond me, but enough about Elsa.

The article offers good general advice, but I'm unsure as to why one should spend so much effort to get a mate. These days you don't need to be in a pair bond, so why bother? All this fuss to find someone who will not live up to expectations ... energy better spent on solo survival skills.

Just because you don't need something for survival, doesn't mean you don't want it. Some people want to be in an exclusive relationship. Others don't. There's no right or wrong thing about it, as it is simply a matter of preference. When someone wants something, though, they put in the effort to get it. The "fuss" is worth it to them~

I think this article gives a lot of good tips that can just make you a happier person with or without that “attractive” end-goal.^^ Really nice find, Goldfish! I'm surprised this came out of Reddit. xD

Fair enough. And I too would like to share my life with someone. But it is not something I'm going to put an effort into because it would be wasted. Chasing after a potential partner is like trying to catch snowflakes.

I agree with you, androbot01. It's best to get on with personal pursuits and interests, rather than concentrate on find a significant other. To be honest, I've never looked for a relationship in my life; they just happened when I least expected them.