more women then men have jobs?

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frustration/curious

seems so. nearly every woman who posts ads or has a profile says how they have a job and blah blah. life together etc. and want a man with with the same.

looking up unemployment shows that yes women have a lower unemployment rate then men. still thers some unemployed. so where the heck are they? o.O

I mean its impossible that I'll ever be able to be with a employed woman even if I ever do find a higher paying job. so I am limited to unemployed ones no? but they don't seem to post ads or go on dating sites. or are they just not interested in dating. certainly being lonely and poor isn't just a man thing?

We exist. Though my unemployment is hopefully only a temporary thing. My opinion of men does not change with my employment status so I'm not quite sure what you are on about. I'll date the same people now as I will when I get a job.

Are you really talking about 'unemployed' women, or are you talking about 'unable to work' women?

People who end up using dating sites usually have problem(s) making them undatable.
Unemployement is one of things that harms the man's chances.
It doesn't affect as much the woman's chances.

I don't know what your talking about and think this may be something you have just honed in on.
Where I voulenteer there are lots of unemployed women who struggle to get a job just as much as the men.

If anything women suffer from alot of underemployment, only being able to get part-time or below min wage jobs. This is also so of young people. (I am basing this on my area of course).

As for you question yes life is unfair, when you try to find somewhere to rent there is this big issue about having to be employed and most employed people want to date employed people. They don't want free-riders I guess. If someone really loves you I doubt an employment status would really matter, but money struggles does cause a lot of friction and break-ups.

I can assure you that being lonely and poor isn't just a man thing because I help many lonely and poor women as well. Infact there are alot of single mothers out there that may think no man wants a woman with a child. You are not the only one with this type of worry. Try changing your tactics like looking elsewhere or if possible take up a vounlatry job for a couple hours a week, it will get you out the house to meet new people.

Uhm, I do only dating. I am not ugly, do not have a horrible personality, don't have any issues socializing, have three good friends and quite some aquaintances and don't sit in my room all day, go to college. I'm just not meeting any new potential men right now, not even in my Latin dance classes or parties. I use online dating to enlarge my dating pool and so do plenty of people my age. It doesn't necessarily say anything about any personal 'issue' I have. The guy I am currently dating and met online is also very attractive, sweet, intelligent, has a job, friends, a nice family and plenty of hobbies. He is just a bit nerdy and shy sometimes... Doesn't mean he has some kind of issue/handicap. If so, everyone has. So I disagree with the online dating is for losers kind of thought. Makes no sense to me. Not my observations at all.

I've said "often used".

And I didn't call them losers.

Disagree with that as well, but whatever floats your boat!