14 Mar 2015, 8:07 pm
14 Mar 2015, 8:12 pm
16 Mar 2015, 5:36 pm
16 Mar 2015, 6:02 pm
What? No, don't listen to these people. Listen to a guy who's had his romantic advances turned down by hundreds of women 
-Pick up on some little thing that sort of not really offends you and make a big deal out of it. Then when he tries to defend himself or clarify , and then say you don't date guys like that. And you're just not right for eachother if you can't agree on these sorts of things.
-ask him for clarification when he mentions something vaguely sexual as if you have absolutely no idea what he's talking about, and then when/if he clarifies act shocked and appalled. And then, say you aren't EASY and you're not up for a one night stand.
-there's just the classic making up excuses constantly...oh no, I can't this weekend.
-if you're too passive for that then you accept but then call him at the last minute and say some weird stuff happened and you have to cancel. Then you just keep doing that, 3 times of that and even the most motivated of guys will give up the chase. The best part is if he gets angry, well, then he just revealed how hot headed and insensitive he is.
I know it kind of sounds devious, but I mean, I feel like it's less harmful than telling them straight up. Honestly, that just hits you like a ton of bricks whereas, this way, the guy kind of just feels confused and a little angry, but will probably get over it in a few days at most.
16 Mar 2015, 6:50 pm
20 Mar 2015, 9:53 pm
OliveOilMom
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20 Mar 2015, 10:04 pm
Just tell him that if you wanted to be treated like a ho you would be on Craigslist and not on whatever social media he tried to talk dirty to you on. That's a dealbreaker there, since that ain't what you're looking for. He just wants a roll in the hay and nothing else. Guys don't try to talk dirty to girls right off the bat if they are trying to get romantic with them. He's looking at you like a booty call so you put him in his place. Flirting too strong is one thing, he may not know what he's doing, but talking dirty to you, not just no baby, but hell no!
Shut that down now.
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20 Mar 2015, 10:20 pm
-Pick up on some little thing that sort of not really offends you and make a big deal out of it. Then when he tries to defend himself or clarify , and then say you don't date guys like that. And you're just not right for eachother if you can't agree on these sorts of things.
-ask him for clarification when he mentions something vaguely sexual as if you have absolutely no idea what he's talking about, and then when/if he clarifies act shocked and appalled. And then, say you aren't EASY and you're not up for a one night stand.
-there's just the classic making up excuses constantly...oh no, I can't this weekend.
-if you're too passive for that then you accept but then call him at the last minute and say some weird stuff happened and you have to cancel. Then you just keep doing that, 3 times of that and even the most motivated of guys will give up the chase. The best part is if he gets angry, well, then he just revealed how hot headed and insensitive he is.
I know it kind of sounds devious, but I mean, I feel like it's less harmful than telling them straight up. Honestly, that just hits you like a ton of bricks whereas, this way, the guy kind of just feels confused and a little angry, but will probably get over it in a few days at most.
I think this is not a good idea. This sort of behavior sounds like some sort of nightmarish stereotype. Being honest is always best. Its also okay to cushion the truth with something, anything positive you can say about him.
And I love the way you put it OliveOilMom!
23 Mar 2015, 4:12 pm
