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DarthMetaKnight
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03 Apr 2015, 5:07 pm

Hi Everyone! Remember me? Long time no see!

Anyways, I have moved on with my life since I last used this site. I have a girlfriend now.

Anyways, this thread is aimed at "love-shys". In other words, this thread is for guys who are afraid to talk to girls.
Here is my advice to you guys: hang around with male friends. When I was in high school, I was never scared to talk to girls because I always knew that I could tell my best friend Patrick if I messed up. I have spoken about Patrick before. He and I were almost like a gay couple without the sex. He gave me confidence. Patrick left in the summer between grade eleven and twelve but I continued to hang around with other guys and they gave me confidence. Women love a confident guy. Me and my male friends love to shout and play "childish" video games ... although none of them are as good as Patrick. I still miss Patrick even when I am with my GF.

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03 Apr 2015, 7:39 pm

DarthMetaKnight wrote:
Hi Everyone! Remember me? Long time no see!

Anyways, I have moved on with my life since I last used this site. I have a girlfriend now.

Anyways, this thread is aimed at "love-shys". In other words, this thread is for guys who are afraid to talk to girls.
Here is my advice to you guys: hang around with male friends. When I was in high school, I was never scared to talk to girls because I always knew that I could tell my best friend Patrick if I messed up. I have spoken about Patrick before. He and I were almost like a gay couple without the sex. He gave me confidence. Patrick left in the summer between grade eleven and twelve but I continued to hang around with other guys and they gave me confidence. Women love a confident guy. Me and my male friends love to shout and play "childish" video games ... although none of them are as good as Patrick. I still miss Patrick even when I am with my GF.

Peace out homes.




Cool story, Bro! :mrgreen:



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04 Apr 2015, 2:37 am

DarthMetaKnight wrote:
Hi Everyone! Remember me? Long time no see!

Anyways, I have moved on with my life since I last used this site. I have a girlfriend now.

Anyways, this thread is aimed at "love-shys". In other words, this thread is for guys who are afraid to talk to girls.
Here is my advice to you guys: hang around with male friends. When I was in high school, I was never scared to talk to girls because I always knew that I could tell my best friend Patrick if I messed up. I have spoken about Patrick before. He and I were almost like a gay couple without the sex. He gave me confidence. Patrick left in the summer between grade eleven and twelve but I continued to hang around with other guys and they gave me confidence. Women love a confident guy. Me and my male friends love to shout and play "childish" video games ... although none of them are as good as Patrick. I still miss Patrick even when I am with my GF.

Peace out homes.


I wish I could believe that.

Sometimes being friends with other males doesn't help though - if you're a shy, quiet person, and your friends are just as shy, quiet and social outcast as you are, you're not going to get very far.

All of my friends have very little contact with the opposite sex, some even less so than I do.

At least I have interest in the opposite sex - I have some friends who have no interest in dating or getting to know nice girls.

I can go to friends for advice in love and dating, but generally I am the one who is always looking for love the most while they just give me help and advice from the sidelines.

They never bother to meet girls they like themselves...

But yeah, my friends have been there for me and helped me out - but their help only gets you so far...



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05 Apr 2015, 5:08 pm

Well, you could try hanging out with other types of guys.

Another Thing: I used to argue in PPR a lot and I think that I improved my social skills that way.


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07 Apr 2015, 9:25 am

I make friends with girls easier than I make guy friends.

I empathize "friend" because I'm on the more sensitive side, and I don't like to say "dude" or "bro", it's just "Hey there" if I'm with guy friends.

But my hormones still rage on for a relationship. I just don't like to show my sexual side.