08 Jun 2015, 3:43 am
08 Jun 2015, 3:54 am
Gauldoth wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
Gauldoth, "not getting your dick wet" is a different thing from not being able to find a partner. If you think that sex is all there is to a relationship, perhaps you have some growing up to do.
And yes, I can get laid. It solves nothing.
And yes, I can get laid. It solves nothing.
Whatever. I've learned a long ago that most women simply lack the mental ability to identify with and empathize with male problems, so I certainly don't expect any sympathy from the likes of you. All I'm saying is you should keep your mouth shut about matters you know nothing about.
"Shut your pretty mouth before I shut it for you."
BTW, my 11-year-old niece uses "whatever" when she knows she's wrong but doesn't want to admit it.
08 Jun 2015, 4:22 am
Who_Am_I wrote:
Gauldoth wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
Gauldoth, "not getting your dick wet" is a different thing from not being able to find a partner. If you think that sex is all there is to a relationship, perhaps you have some growing up to do.
And yes, I can get laid. It solves nothing.
And yes, I can get laid. It solves nothing.
Whatever. I've learned a long ago that most women simply lack the mental ability to identify with and empathize with male problems, so I certainly don't expect any sympathy from the likes of you. All I'm saying is you should keep your mouth shut about matters you know nothing about.
"Shut your pretty mouth before I shut it for you."
BTW, my 11-year-old niece uses "whatever" when she knows she's wrong but doesn't want to admit it.
Shutting out your opponents from the debate is a feminist tactic. I don't need to shut my opponents out, I can take them head on and win because I'm right. I'm just saying you shouldn't comment on matters you know nothing because it makes you look like even more of an unsympathetic shrew than the average "lady aspie".
08 Jun 2015, 4:15 pm
Who_Am_I wrote:
I see your point. For me sex and love are two different things.
I'm often envious of people like you.
life might be bit easier if the two weren't so connected for me. maybe I could do one night stands or prostitutes.
its not the physical urges which can be relieved by mastubating, but rather sex is like I said an emotional thing for me. I desire the emotional closeness it brings with another person. the connection. sex isn't' just sex to me, sadly
08 Jun 2015, 4:22 pm
You sir have inspired me to get out there and talk to the species we call females. Girlz will be no match for my new found confidence and kick ass social skillz.
To battle!
For Narnia And For Ass Land!! !! !! 
08 Jun 2015, 4:32 pm
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08 Jun 2015, 8:31 pm
sly279 wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
I see your point. For me sex and love are two different things.
I'm often envious of people like you.
life might be bit easier if the two weren't so connected for me. maybe I could do one night stands or prostitutes.
its not the physical urges which can be relieved by mastubating, but rather sex is like I said an emotional thing for me. I desire the emotional closeness it brings with another person. the connection. sex isn't' just sex to me, sadly
I see it both ways.
I can have ONS's, and have had more than my fair share of them lol, but I also view the combination of sex & love as superior to just sex and one day wish to experience it. Also, there are certain sexual acts that are, IMO, too intimate for a ONS & thus since I've never been in a loving relationship, I've never done them & won't until I'm with a partner I want to be with vs. want to be with for a few hours for a bit of fun.
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09 Jun 2015, 3:16 am
Gauldoth wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
Gauldoth wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
Gauldoth, "not getting your dick wet" is a different thing from not being able to find a partner. If you think that sex is all there is to a relationship, perhaps you have some growing up to do.
And yes, I can get laid. It solves nothing.
And yes, I can get laid. It solves nothing.
Whatever. I've learned a long ago that most women simply lack the mental ability to identify with and empathize with male problems, so I certainly don't expect any sympathy from the likes of you. All I'm saying is you should keep your mouth shut about matters you know nothing about.
"Shut your pretty mouth before I shut it for you."
BTW, my 11-year-old niece uses "whatever" when she knows she's wrong but doesn't want to admit it.
Shutting out your opponents from the debate is a feminist tactic. I don't need to shut my opponents out, I can take them head on and win because I'm right. I'm just saying you shouldn't comment on matters you know nothing because it makes you look like even more of an unsympathetic shrew than the average "lady aspie".
Calling female aspies "unsympathetic shrews" is the 3rd personal attack you've made in this thread.
Once more and you'll be on a 2-week ban.
09 Jun 2015, 4:38 am
09 Jun 2015, 4:40 am
Who_Am_I wrote:
Gauldoth wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
Gauldoth wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
Gauldoth, "not getting your dick wet" is a different thing from not being able to find a partner. If you think that sex is all there is to a relationship, perhaps you have some growing up to do.
And yes, I can get laid. It solves nothing.
And yes, I can get laid. It solves nothing.
Whatever. I've learned a long ago that most women simply lack the mental ability to identify with and empathize with male problems, so I certainly don't expect any sympathy from the likes of you. All I'm saying is you should keep your mouth shut about matters you know nothing about.
"Shut your pretty mouth before I shut it for you."
BTW, my 11-year-old niece uses "whatever" when she knows she's wrong but doesn't want to admit it.
Shutting out your opponents from the debate is a feminist tactic. I don't need to shut my opponents out, I can take them head on and win because I'm right. I'm just saying you shouldn't comment on matters you know nothing because it makes you look like even more of an unsympathetic shrew than the average "lady aspie".
Calling female aspies "unsympathetic shrews" is the 3rd personal attack you've made in this thread.
Once more and you'll be on a 2-week ban.
Case and point.
09 Jun 2015, 5:37 am
09 Jun 2015, 10:25 am
yellowtamarin wrote:
Gauldoth wrote:
yellowtamarin wrote:
Why would women (overall) being "less sexual" than men (overall) mean that nearly all women don't enjoy sex?
I probably think about sex less than the average male, but that doesn't mean I don't enjoy it when I have it. This connection just doesn't make any sense to me. I hardly ever think about raspberries but I sure do enjoy eating them! I also hardly ever seek them out, because they are too expensive, but when I do treat myself it's not because I want to get something else out of it, I want to enjoy the damn raspberries because they are delicious!
I probably think about sex less than the average male, but that doesn't mean I don't enjoy it when I have it. This connection just doesn't make any sense to me. I hardly ever think about raspberries but I sure do enjoy eating them! I also hardly ever seek them out, because they are too expensive, but when I do treat myself it's not because I want to get something else out of it, I want to enjoy the damn raspberries because they are delicious!
You've refuted your own argument. You don't raspberries more often because they're expensive. Sex is not expensive to you as a woman. I mean, hell, you're the ones who charge us for sex, figuratively or literally.
Sex for me is the same "price" as it is for the other person, or as close as possible. If you are talking about things like a man having to buy me dinner or some crap like that before I'll sleep with him, that's just not true. And we both get the same thing out of it - sex! Something we - wait for it - both want!
No, it's really, really not... I don't know what the "price" of sex, but I can guarantee you that as an average woman you won't need to spend anywhere near the amount of time and resources the average man will in order to get sex. In fact, again, as a woman, you can exchange your sexual consent with men for other things. The only reason you don't have sex is because there aren't more men out there who have anything you're actually interested in to exchange for your consent.
Sex is not an equals' game, anyone who pretends is either simply ignorant or being deliberately obtuse. Sex is a market; women are the sellers, men are the buyers.
09 Jun 2015, 12:46 pm
goldfish21
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09 Jun 2015, 7:24 pm
rdos wrote:
Gauldoth wrote:
Sex is a market; women are the sellers, men are the buyers.
Generally, you are right, except for asexual men that don't need to engage in this bargain, and basically can even reverse it. Also, asexual men have a relatively larger pool of possible mates as asexuality is much more common in women, so if they do things right they can reverse the roles in "dating" as well, and select more attractive women.
You both completely missed gay men who grant mutual consent & F for the pure pleasure of it.
Also, neither of you has posted an explanation for lesbian sex. If it's not for pleasure, or for getting a man to give them something, or to make babies.. then how do you even explain it's existence??? I'm curious what you two's theory on that one is.
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