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29 Jun 2010, 6:50 pm

I am only 24 years old, but sometimes I feel like I am too weird and abnormal to find a soul mate. I think I might have to find an Aspie, but what if he annoys me just as much as I annoy myself? Who else here is lonely, and has plenty of things to fill the void in your mind (obsessions) but not a real man/woman?



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29 Jun 2010, 7:00 pm

Yes.


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29 Jun 2010, 7:09 pm

I worry that we may never be together.


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29 Jun 2010, 7:12 pm

Yes I felt like this, that is till suddenly I met the girl of my dreams. Yes it took a depressingly long time, but I now have found that special person. I hope you have similar luck to me, really I do.


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29 Jun 2010, 7:24 pm

A soul mate for me? lmao!! ! Are you kidding?! ! When that happens, the universe will collapse into itself!



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29 Jun 2010, 7:27 pm

bluelily3 wrote:
Who else here is lonely, and has plenty of things to fill the void in your mind



If you have plenty of things to fill the void, then quit worrying about what you don't have.


Soulmates can be lost.


As can souls themselves.


Be careful what you wish for.



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29 Jun 2010, 7:27 pm

I think that only a very small fraction of the world ever truly finds their soul mate anyway. Yes many people are married but usually not to someone they love. They'll just marry them for financial purposes or whatnot and the people who do find love fall out of it eventually.

I wouldnt worry so much about it. Plus you're quite young so you'll have your whole life time as it is.



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29 Jun 2010, 7:31 pm

my soul's too weird to have a mate:(
all the other souls laugh at it



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29 Jun 2010, 7:36 pm

bluelily3 wrote:
I am only 24 years old, but sometimes I feel like I am too weird and abnormal to find a soul mate. I think I might have to find an Aspie, but what if he annoys me just as much as I annoy myself? Who else here is lonely, and has plenty of things to fill the void in your mind (obsessions) but not a real man/woman?


You think its bad now wait till you get in your 40's. :cry:



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29 Jun 2010, 8:17 pm

Only all the time. I'm not even looking for a "soul mate" either, just someone who is well enough matched to me that we could be partnered.


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29 Jun 2010, 8:48 pm

raisedbyignorance wrote:
I think that only a very small fraction of the world ever truly finds their soul mate anyway. Yes many people are married but usually not to someone they love. They'll just marry them for financial purposes or whatnot and the people who do find love fall out of it eventually.

I wouldnt worry so much about it. Plus you're quite young so you'll have your whole life time as it is.


This.

Television and movies and romance novels and the like really sell it well, don't they?



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29 Jun 2010, 8:55 pm

Pretty much, I even have my motto on my Facebook page " I'm too strange to date people. "



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29 Jun 2010, 9:04 pm

Moog wrote:
I worry that we may never be together.


So do I.



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29 Jun 2010, 9:13 pm

I've felt that way for years. No one's ever gonna put a saddle on this bronco.


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29 Jun 2010, 9:25 pm

Everyone has more than one soul mate and i've only met one of mine but we are no longer together. There are more out there.



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29 Jun 2010, 9:34 pm

my soul mate is a fictitious giant robot.