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c700
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19 Jul 2015, 5:51 am

Is this girl interested? Here's the background of her gestures. Although, I doubt they mean anything at all.

-she's 4 years older than me
-she blew me a kiss
-she plays with my hair while giggling
-sometimes she searches for me to talk with me alone (she's a part of my social circle)
-I often catch her looking at me
-she offered me a massage (she's a kinesiotherapy student)

What would you say is the chance of her being interested, based on this information (in percent)?



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19 Jul 2015, 7:20 am

c700 wrote:
Is this girl interested? Here's the background of her gestures. Although, I doubt they mean anything at all.

-she's 4 years older than me
-she blew me a kiss
-she plays with my hair while giggling
-sometimes she searches for me to talk with me alone (she's a part of my social circle)
-I often catch her looking at me
-she offered me a massage (she's a kinesiotherapy student)

What would you say is the chance of her being interested, based on this information (in percent)?


Something like 99% :wink:



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19 Jul 2015, 7:39 am

Yeah, I'd say she's interested.



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19 Jul 2015, 7:43 am

Ask her for coffee already!



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19 Jul 2015, 8:22 am

Ask her out, it is the only way to know for sure.



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19 Jul 2015, 8:24 am

Ask her if she's interested!



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19 Jul 2015, 8:26 am

c700 wrote:
Is this girl interested? Here's the background of her gestures. Although, I doubt they mean anything at all.

-she's 4 years older than me
-she blew me a kiss
-she plays with my hair while giggling
-sometimes she searches for me to talk with me alone (she's a part of my social circle)
-I often catch her looking at me
-she offered me a massage (she's a kinesiotherapy student)

What would you say is the chance of her being interested, based on this information (in percent)?


NT question - what more would this girl need to do to show she's interested in you?


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19 Jul 2015, 9:29 am

I won't give a percentage because sometimes people send misleading signals, but it's definitely worth investigating. ;)



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19 Jul 2015, 9:38 am

When in the diner, play footsie with her (softly)



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19 Jul 2015, 10:17 am

c700 wrote:
Is this girl interested? Here's the background of her gestures. Although, I doubt they mean anything at all.

-she's 4 years older than me




That one's a dead giveaway for sure. :?



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19 Jul 2015, 10:54 am

Go for it dude pretty sure she likes you



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19 Jul 2015, 11:16 am

The only way you will know for sure that she likes you is to ask her out, but I think you have enough reason to be relatively confident she will say yes, if you need encouragement to take that step.



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19 Jul 2015, 9:09 pm

The only way she's not into you is if she's gay. Otherwise, I'd say just ask her out. What is her motive? No idea. The worst that can happen is she'll say no. But yeah, she touched you. I don't know what state you're in... but yeah.



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20 Jul 2015, 2:12 am

Venger wrote:
c700 wrote:
Is this girl interested? Here's the background of her gestures. Although, I doubt they mean anything at all.

-she's 4 years older than me




That one's a dead giveaway for sure. :?


Sarcasm?



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20 Jul 2015, 2:20 am

nurseangela wrote:
c700 wrote:
Is this girl interested? Here's the background of her gestures. Although, I doubt they mean anything at all.

-she's 4 years older than me
-she blew me a kiss
-she plays with my hair while giggling
-sometimes she searches for me to talk with me alone (she's a part of my social circle)
-I often catch her looking at me
-she offered me a massage (she's a kinesiotherapy student)

What would you say is the chance of her being interested, based on this information (in percent)?


NT question - what more would this girl need to do to show she's interested in you?

something obvious and hard to miss?
like asking the guy out on a date instead of waiting for the guy to do so; that'll be a decent signal



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20 Jul 2015, 3:17 am

c700 wrote:
Venger wrote:
c700 wrote:
Is this girl interested? Here's the background of her gestures. Although, I doubt they mean anything at all.

-she's 4 years older than me




That one's a dead giveaway for sure. :?


Sarcasm?


Don't be discouraged by that.

Go call her now and ask her out.

If this one says 'no' and gives you the typical excuse of 'we are just friends' or 'you are like brother' then this should added to the "no one can understand women" log. :P