A scary example of NT female intuition

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07 Aug 2015, 2:53 pm

I was in Istanbul for work for 3 days in my company's branch in Turkey and I met my two Turkish coworkers in person for the first time, one of them is friendly and very extrovert whom had been talking to me a lot all the time, while the other isn't that friendly to me.

On Wednesday after work they took us (me, my local colleague and a Czech work partner) to different places, at midnight the second girl took us to a club bar along side the bosphorus - it is a small place, very crowded, dark, only lit by candles and red dim light, and playing music loudly...
Anyway, the theme music on that day was rap which I am not fan of, but I was really enjoying the beat, shaking lightly with the beat among others and enjoying my drink, like everyone else actually- It's not like I was crossing my arms and sitting still.

Then the Turkish girl (the first , friendly one) came to me and whispered loudly (since the music was too loud) into my ear "I DON'T THINK YOU LIKE THIS MUSIC" - I was like "don't worry, I am good " - and she repeated "Nooo I DON'T THINK YOU LIKE THIS MUSIC" Lol ...and I was like "Just enjoying the beat, but not much into rap in particular" - and her "YEAH I KNEW IT, YOU DON'T LIKE THAT MUSIC".

Wow...she could see this in me in middle of a crowdy, very loud and almost totally DARK place. :|

Scary, no?



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07 Aug 2015, 8:46 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I was in Istanbul for work for 3 days in my company's branch in Turkey and I met my two Turkish coworkers in person for the first time, one of them is friendly and very extrovert whom had been talking to me a lot all the time, while the other isn't that friendly to me.

On Wednesday after work they took us (me, my local colleague and a Czech work partner) to different places, at midnight the second girl took us to a club bar along side the bosphorus - it is a small place, very crowded, dark, only lit by candles and red dim light, and playing music loudly...
Anyway, the theme music on that day was rap which I am not fan of, but I was really enjoying the beat, shaking lightly with the beat among others and enjoying my drink, like everyone else actually- It's not like I was crossing my arms and sitting still.

Then the Turkish girl (the first , friendly one) came to me and whispered loudly (since the music was too loud) into my ear "I DON'T THINK YOU LIKE THIS MUSIC" - I was like "don't worry, I am good " - and she repeated "Nooo I DON'T THINK YOU LIKE THIS MUSIC" Lol ...and I was like "Just enjoying the beat, but not much into rap in particular" - and her "YEAH I KNEW IT, YOU DON'T LIKE THAT MUSIC".

Wow...she could see this in me in middle of a crowdy, very loud and almost totally DARK place. :|

Scary, no?

You sure it isn't that you'd be nervous in a place like that regardless of what music was playing and she was just picking up that you were feeling nervous? Or am I just projecting how I'd feel at a place like that.



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07 Aug 2015, 8:49 pm

I can bet that Face Of Boo felt pretty good in that place.

In Istanbul...on the Bosporous. Sort of an ideal for lots of people.



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07 Aug 2015, 10:47 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
one of them is friendly and very extrovert whom had been talking to me a lot all the time


This might be the reason why she was so perceptive. You probably told her something that aided her in reaching the conclusion that rap wasn't your music style.



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08 Aug 2015, 10:18 am

Well you did like the music, just not the rapping part by the sound of it.



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08 Aug 2015, 11:12 am

Lintar wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
one of them is friendly and very extrovert whom had been talking to me a lot all the time


This might be the reason why she was so perceptive. You probably told her something that aided her in reaching the conclusion that rap wasn't your music style.


I barely talked stuff to her other than work-related before that.



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08 Aug 2015, 3:51 pm

That's why I don't believe it when someone denies they can tell who is a virgin :nerdy:


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09 Aug 2015, 7:18 pm

Spiderpig wrote:
That's why I don't believe it when someone denies they can tell who is a virgin :nerdy:


How do you tell?