How do I make myself appealing?

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I'm 16, and a guy, and I don't think I'm appealing enough to the ladies...
I don't exercise, except I do walk around CONSTANTLY, I am slightly overweight, but it's not noticeable (according to people who say they had no idea i was overweight). I'm on the computer all day, every day, except I do research on the computer a lot, and take drives around town, and talk to people... I have no driver's permit, no job, and my GPA is 3.34 or a little higher..... I go to a special ed school, but i take 2 ap classes. I'm in the 11th grade, and I am interested in social sciences... how do I make myself more appealing?

Stay in school, stay out of trouble, and graduate.

Get a driver's permit, get a job, earn money, and buy a car.

Enroll in uni, stay out of trouble, and graduate.

Get a better job, earn more money, buy a better car, and buy a house.

Lose weight, stay healthy, don't smoke, and don't use drugs for recreation.

Dress well, learn to smile, learn to listen, and learn to look interested.

Learn an instrument, express yourself artistically, and appreciate the artistic expression of all other artists.

Bathe daily, shave, floss and brush your teeth, and use deodorant.

Express interest in starting a family, but don't have sex with a woman unless you can accept her as the mother of your child.

... that should get you started ...

Whether overweight or not, exercising and getting in good shape can very much boost your attractiveness. Since you're 16, I'd say no job or drivers license is okay for now. Develop and expand on your interests. Maybe join interest groups to meet people who share your passions. Develop your social skills as best you can, perhaps by devoting some of your research skills to it. Don't come off as needy or desperate, and do your best to make yourself look and feel as confident as possible.