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Cockroach96
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13 Sep 2015, 11:02 am

I have a fatty abdomen and man tits, but I am 6 feet tall with well developed torso, arms and legs, as well as a nice attractive face. I have a plan for losing fat and will discuss it in the fitness section.

Meanwhile, could my belly fat get me rejected by girls?

Considering my looks, how likely am I to get a girlfriend?


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13 Sep 2015, 11:04 am

Cockroach96 wrote:
Is belly fat a turn-off?

What I can tell is that's not turn-on.


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13 Sep 2015, 11:13 am

I'd say it's rather common. I've had stomach fat since I was 10. I am 6"2 and weigh 177 so it's not like I'm even overweight. Stomach fat is one of the most difficult things to get rid of. I can testify to that. I think in the end, most people need to realize nobody is perfect. If people want a perfect body, then they aren't worth your time to being with.


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13 Sep 2015, 11:15 am

Actually, I've heard there are a good amount of very prettywomen attracted to larger men, of course finding one like that is a whole other story.



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13 Sep 2015, 11:17 am

Doesn't bother me - I like a bit of squidge!



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13 Sep 2015, 5:31 pm

I've done okay.....with belly fat. And I'm 5 foot 5.



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13 Sep 2015, 7:36 pm

I like a soft belly on a man. I'm not turned on by seeing a guy with hard muscles or a really sculpted body.

If belly fat was really a turn-off, the human race would die out pretty fast.

I don't think it's a literal physical turn-off for anyone, but some people do make their minds up against it for social reasons, especially very status-conscious people.

Personally I think if a girl rejects you because of some belly fat, you are probably much better off without her.



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13 Sep 2015, 8:19 pm

It's not a turnoff for me at all.



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14 Sep 2015, 1:38 am

MjrMajorMajor wrote:
It's not a turnoff for me at all.



But six packs is a big turn on for you :p; if I recall right (remember my strip show?).



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14 Sep 2015, 4:02 am

I'd worry more about the man-tits if I was you.

A pot belly is quite easy to shed when you're doing weekly gym sessions, with man-tits you're gonna have a (way) harder time, often would even require surgery to get rid of it.



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14 Sep 2015, 4:10 am

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I'd worry more about the man-tits if I was you.

A pot belly is quite easy to shed when you're doing weekly gym sessions, with man-tits you're gonna have a (way) harder time, often would even require surgery to get rid of it.


Yep depends if their pseudo man-tits, or real ones which require cosmetic surgery. The latter won't completely go away through weight-loss obviously.



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14 Sep 2015, 4:14 am

Mine are not so bad, they are just a little protruding. I think I can reduce them using diet and exercise.


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14 Sep 2015, 4:19 am

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Mine are not so bad, they are just a little protruding. I think I can reduce them using diet and exercise.


If they're pseudo man-tits you should be able to remove them through exercise, not just reduce them.

Real ones I'd forget about getting a GF until post-op.



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14 Sep 2015, 5:27 am

^^
I believe that's a relatively cheap cosmetic procedure though(like a few grand), since it's not something on your head/face etc.



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14 Sep 2015, 5:54 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
MjrMajorMajor wrote:
It's not a turnoff for me at all.



But six packs is a big turn on for you :p; if I recall right (remember my strip show?).


No, I don't recall you stripping. Must have been away that day. :P

I'm a fan of shirtless firemen calendars, but that doesn't mean I mind a bit of paunch.



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14 Sep 2015, 5:56 am

MjrMajorMajor wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
MjrMajorMajor wrote:
It's not a turnoff for me at all.



But six packs is a big turn on for you :p; if I recall right (remember my strip show?).


No, I don't recall you stripping. Must have been away that day. :P

I'm a fan of shirtless firemen calendars, but that doesn't mean I mind a bit of paunch.


So I put on the bikini on that day for nothing?