Am I in love, or am I just desperate?

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I'm 16, and I'm friends with a 7th grader girl, who right now is my only friend, and even then, my mother is making it difficult by refusing to acknowledgeb that she is my friend and refuses to let us visit one another ( I can only see her at my mosque. ) I often lay in bed with my pillow and make out with it, and say romantic things to it while pretending it's my friend Amina, and I even imagine that she's with me as I go about my daily life... I also have fantasies of kissing her, but I think I'm just desperate because shes my only friend and I only have 4 classmates in my alternative school who are all problem students and thus have less potential for friendship, and because she's the only girl I know at the moment besides some I only know to exist. (My school is all boys). How to tell if I'm in love, and even if I am, is that bad due to her age?

That's not love. It is a signpost for what you are looking towards in your life.

MjrMajorMajor, isn't what you just said, considered love? Oh, please, please don't tell me you don't think 16 year Olds cant fall in love.....

Really. Please listen to me. 12 years old is WAY too young. Honestly. It could get you into trouble.

I'm not just saying this to be a pain in the butt. Wait till she's at least 16 or so.

She's alittle young for you rite now & it sounds like you aren't that close to her so I don't think your in love.