Attracting The Wrong Types

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This message is to all the men out there:

For some reason, I tend to like slender brunette women who are 5'4"-ish and with blue or brown eyes. Instead, I attract women not even close to compatible who are usually also well beyond my weight (no offense to the heavyset), childish, and have unstable tempers. Lowering my standards too much has gotten pretty dangerous in the past.

Is there a way to break this cycle and no longer have "just friends syndrome" with ideal women that I probably don't have a snowball's chance in Hades with?

I've never been picky about weight...but thats just me
to me everyone is pretty-you just gotta look
I'm not sure...sorry

I'm pretty damned picky, and often end up
with women who don't fit my ideal, but they
usually aren't too far (I wouldn't allow things
to proceed if they were). Then, I begin to add
to what I find attractive, so as to be more
attracted to my current interest.

I should have left the weight thing out of it. Still, that's only one common trait in this negative attraction. I've felt attracted to some Average weight women, by the way.

What really concerns me is the psyche of many of the individuals who are interested in me. These traits are bouncing off walls like a 6 year old/being manipulative.

You're probably easy to manipulate.
Those who are manipulative know
how to sense that type out. Just as
those who like to be abused seek
out my tortured form of violence.

huh.

I dunno.

I don't normally care.

If you don't find them physically attractive and you find their personalities leave something to be desired, to put it diplomatically, why on earth do you even stick around with these women? I mean you don't catch them like a cold, or maybe you do.

Ill be lucky if i can attract any sort of girl, i seem to give off an "Aura" that seems to repulse/repel members of the opposite sex, i also have the problem that i feel guilty when i talk to women doesent help. (damn this low self esteem), i get the feelong im not good enough for any women, anyone else feel this way?

ohh yeah i feel women wouldn't want me around them/talking to them so I don't...ever

Oh, god, I totally know what you mean. I tend to attract really giggly, immature girls that frankly annoy me. >.<

I don't really attract anyone anymore.

i tend to attract people who i think won't hurt me
but end up doing so in the end.
i'm currently in a problem with a girl i like
but she has no feelings for me and has a boyfriend.
I always end up getting hurt