The low quality life of being ugly :/

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I don't know where to start just...well I'm a 6 foot tall slender male aged 25 but look 21 I'm told, and recently I know I'm just simply too ugly to get girls at all....iv never kissed or talked to girls, where my fiends can go out like normal young guys and they bring girls home no problem.....there's been times they've been in the next room and I'm laying in bed alone and can hear them kissing etc and I admit it hurts every time because I'm too ugly for that, my twenties is wasting away in that department because of the way I look depriving me of even being treated as a normal person. It's only natural for a young guy to want to get girls on nights out with friends etc. worse yet iv worked in a bar for over 3 years now and never had any girls like me, if anything they are very snooty with me and stare me like "yuk" and the just take the plate out of my hand and don't say thanks m and I put that down to me being ugly as to why they are like that with me,:/ i see nice girls a lot and it tears me up at times because I'll never have anything like that. I hate it when people say 'oh it's all about confidence/personality blah blah blah' girls don't care about a guys personality if he's ugly. the other night in work I was walking past a group of girls and felt a stare where I looked up one stared then looked up at my hair, I mumbled under my breath as I walked away 'yes I'm ugly get over it', all I ask is to be looked at and treated as a person but with being ugly that's too much to ask in a double standard society. I hate going outdoors to work as I get snotty stares for the way I look ( like I need to be reminded of it) Just tonight our bouncer called me a Mong. Last week I went to work when 2 school kids on bikes where 1 shouted to the other 'waaaat...ugly bastard him', and worse yet at the end of everyday I return to my home and sit in the bathroom in the dark drinking whisky and smoking feeling sorry for myself. Thanks for reading

I know that feel man.
It sucks, normal-looking people don't have to deal with so much s**t and good-looking people are treated better, they can be a***holes but nobody cares, have better job/money prospects, they have many options with partners (and they know it every day) and can sleep around, are valued and have fun while we ugly people can be happy if we find someone who doesn't misjudge us for our looks.
It's very true that ugly people have it harder; just think everyday life, good-looking people are validated all the time, ugly people can live for years with nobody giving a s**t about them.

At the same time, there are things that can be done about bad looks, such as healthy weight training, getting a good haircut and putting in some gel, having decent clothes.
This doesn't necissarily make one perfect, but if you're a hulk, less people will dare to laugh at you.
Most good-looking people spend a lot of time grooming themselves and having a healthy diet, vs us uglies, we shower maybe once a week and wipe after taking a dump and that's it. That's important to keep in mind. We might not be able to look gorgeous, but we can still look good if we invest the time for it.

I wonder just how bad you might look. Can it really be THAT bad?

You're probably not as ugly as you think you are.

Post a picture--let us decide!

That practically describes my life but I am almost 10 years older than you. I do not expect life to ever change and I have accepted my position in life. Being unattractive is hard to accept at first but over time you will come to accept you are who you. To hell what others think/say about you, they are only looking for a fight.

I'm not exactly the Cat's Meow---but I do okay.

I feel ya, man. Luckily, you can look pretty damn decent with just a few cosmetic fixes.

Most people wear clothes that aren't tailored and don't fit properly (since you're 6 feet tall and slender, your clothes probably don't fit well off the shelf). Find the most fashion-savvy person you know to go help you get a new wardrobe. Or buy one new piece of clothing with every paycheque if a shopping-spree isn't in your budget. Get anything that doesn't fit tailored; it isn't expensive at all and it makes a huge difference. Next, go to a salon and get the hairdresser to style your hair in a way that flatters your face shape. If she uses any products in your hair, ask her what they are and how you can get the same look at home. This shouldn't cost more than $50 and maybe another $30-40 in hair product.

From there, just make sure you're clean, you've got decent posture and your shoes look nice.

It's incredibly stupid that these things are important but the unfortunate reality is that they are.

I'm 5 foot 5. The shortest pants one can buy (for adults) have 29-inch inseams. A 28-inch inseam fits perfectly! its' so frustrating!

Shirts I do okay at, though.

OP, one day after posting this you made a new thread saying the exact same thing, only with link to pics. Duplicate threads are against the rules, so I'm locking this one.