Am I too ugly/plain to get girls in you're opinion?

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I don't know where to start just...well I'm a 6 foot tall slender male aged 25 but look 21 I'm told, and recently I know I'm just simply too ugly to get girls at all....iv never kissed or talked to girls, where my fiends can go out like normal young guys and they bring girls home no problem.....there's been times they've been in the next room and I'm laying in bed alone and can hear them kissing etc and I admit it hurts every time because I'm too ugly for that, my twenties is wasting away in that department because of the way I look depriving me of even being treated as a normal person. It's only natural for a young guy to want to get girls on nights out with friends etc. worse yet iv worked in a bar for over 3 years now and never had any girls like me, if anything they are very snooty with me and stare me like "yuk" and the just take the plate out of my hand and don't say thanks m and I put that down to me being ugly as to why they are like that with me,:/ i see nice girls a lot and it tears me up at times because I'll never have anything like that. I hate it when people say 'oh it's all about confidence/personality blah blah blah' girls don't care about a guys personality if he's ugly. the other night in work I was walking past a group of girls and felt a stare where I looked up one stared then looked up at my hair, I mumbled under my breath as I walked away 'yes I'm ugly get over it', all I ask is to be looked at and treated as a person but with being ugly that's too much to ask in a double standard society. I hate going outdoors to work as I get snotty stares for the way I look ( like I need to be reminded of it) Just tonight our bouncer called me a Mong. Last week I went to work when 2 school kids on bikes where 1 shouted to the other 'waaaat...ugly bastard him', and worse yet at the end of everyday I return to my home and sit in the bathroom in the dark drinking whisky and smoking feeling sorry for myself. Thanks for reading
If you want pics ask p, but I don't know how to because I'm a new user

This is me
http://imgur.com/pwPWOpm
http://imgur.com/Ex3vb92
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In new white uniform which I hate
http://imgur.com/K6IR0bh
Waiter and ppl stare me a lot weirdly when I'm in white uniform;/ is it because I'm ugly?

Your problem isn't your looks. I don't know you in person to know what your problem is, but it's not your looks. It could be personality or confidence, cause the pictures that you posted looked pretty low-self-esteem which generally isn't considered an attractive trait. There are some people who find it attractive, but not the majority of them. However, your appearance is essentially what the standard requests of women are: tall, dark hair, not overweight, etc. Put a smile on the face and a spring in the step and the appearances will be spot-on. However, if you act like you think you're ugly, it'll make you appear uglier; if you believe you're attractive, it'll show and make you more attractive.

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